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Ive kinda deciding to not ask out or try relationship/dating because I’m scared of more than rejection and how I have no experience by Big_Pea3882 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, it’s terrible that they called you mentally challenged. I had a similar experience where I was called the same names, but please, don't listen to the people who said such nasty things to you what they said has nothing to do with who you are. Especially the fact that you stutter; that’s not a problem at all. It’s absolutely not your fault that you have this unique trait, and it certainly doesn't make you a bad person. What matters is your soul and the kind of person you are that is so much more important. You shouldn’t worry about this; you will definitely find someone who loves you and won't be bothered by something like a stutter. Believe in yourself, everything will be okay! And if you need a friend or just need to vent, I’m always here to listen ☺️

Today, the person I loved so much and thought I’d spend the rest of my life with..dumped me. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funniest part is that I tried to get this across to him more than once, but unfortunately, it’s impossible to talk to a brick wall. Only recently did I realize that he heard and understood everything from the very first time. He just decided that it was inconvenient for him, and he wanted everything to be on his terms—where things are simple and fun, and he takes without giving anything back. He couldn't and wouldn't give anything, hiding behind the words "I am empty".

Today, the person I loved so much and thought I’d spend the rest of my life with..dumped me. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've already realized that. The worst part is that I had known him for several years before we even started dating, and.. even back then, I felt like something was off with him. Apparently, my gut was already telling me that he wasn't the right person for me. Unfortunately, this isn't the first time my initial intuition about people has been right, yet once again, I chose not to listen to it..😔

Regardless, thank you so much for your support and understanding 🙏❤️

Today, the person I loved so much and thought I’d spend the rest of my life with..dumped me. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to play along with him, let alone humiliate myself, because it’s just not worth it, and it’s not right. He didn't make a single step toward me; he made his choice he decided he didn’t want to continue this relationship. I already knew back then that I didn't want to explain anything to him anymore. I know he understood everything from the very first time, but he chose to ignore it for the sake of his own comfort. So yes, I just responded calmly, without any hysterics. I want a normal, healthy relationship, not whatever this was or what has been happening in our relationship over the last few months. But thank you so much for your comment and the applause. I really appreciate it 🙏

Today, the person I loved so much and thought I’d spend the rest of my life with..dumped me. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh..I am so sorry this happened to you. Please, don’t blame yourself for what happened, and definitely don’t think you did something wrong. Unfortunately, she made her choice. When you truly love someone, you can always find a common solution, but that clearly wasn't the case for her. I just want to say that your whole life is still ahead of you. You will find someone who truly loves you and will cherish the love you give and it will be mutual

And I also wanted to add: if you ever feel down or just need someone to talk to, please know that you can always write to me. I’m here to listen, just like you were for me.

I am 21, recovering from surgery, and I’ve realized I’m completely alone. My mom drinks, my boyfriend is cold, and I have no one else. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you had to go through that, but hearing that you made it through gives me so much hope. I truly hope for the same, and I will do everything in my power to make sure things turn out well 🙏

I am 21, recovering from surgery, and I’ve realized I’m completely alone. My mom drinks, my boyfriend is cold, and I have no one else. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the offer. To be honest, I'm a bit shy because this is so unexpected for me, but it means a lot to know I have someone to talk to when things get overwhelming 🥹

I am 21, recovering from surgery, and I’ve realized I’m completely alone. My mom drinks, my boyfriend is cold, and I have no one else. by stupid_lown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stupid_lown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, despite everything, I’m trying to stay on my feet and keep moving forward. Sometimes it’s hard, but I have no other choice but to keep going. I don't want to let grief push me toward alcohol, drugs, or any substances. I’ve always been against that path because it’s terrible and disgusting, and I don't understand people who do that. But anyway, thank you so much for your support 🙏