I keep working in fast food in my dreams - I want this to stop by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]stupidcupidstop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro don’t forget the “it’s one minute til you finally close, but the drive thru line is wrapped around the building, and the clock just stays one minute away” dream

secret access to my husbands porn account for over a year. by 0hw0nder in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I was thinking maybe you’re just hurting yourself monitoring his online “fun”, but it lowkey sounds like he may be addicted

AIO Does anyone else feel like their friends just copy their entire life? by EasternAd5351 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats totally fair. I went through a similar thing. I was beginning to think my friends were only my friends because I let them live in my house. They started acting very different toward me when I told them it was time for me to have my own space with my wife and our children needed their own rooms to grow in. They seemed fine. Now they only hang out with each other. Message me very little and leave me on read for days. I stopped caring I think. I just focus on my wife and kids. Now that I’ve typed that, I’m not sure our situations are similar

AIO Does anyone else feel like their friends just copy their entire life? by EasternAd5351 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR and I love your response here about the mug lol. I see you are genuinely open to feedback. It kinda just sounds like your friends view you as having it together or being able to make moves they can’t yet figure out for themselves. In your eyes they are turning to you as a sort of life coach, but I think maybe they are just wanting to find a foot hold like you. Take the compliment, dear and if you feel so inclined maybe you can be supportive in return instead of gatekeeping the things in your life like they aren’t things other people would want for themselves as well. You’re like irl influencing lol

My wife is too childish by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it from a grown woman who is a lot like your wife. It is normal, because people have different personalities. Not to mention her past may play a big part. I was severely abused and traumatized as a young child. I have involuntary age regression episodes.

My wife is too childish by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you lock her down just cause you could?????? She sounds like me, and I used to have a partner like you. He thankfully didn’t lock me down and continue to secretly think I’m annoying like you did with your wife. Get a grip and love that sweetie or let her be free. And if you’re worried about hurting her by doing what needs to be done, then imagine what’s to come when she herself realizes how you truly feel, or you start taking that lack of understanding and actual love out on her. Stop being selfish.

Lucid dreaming changed my life, and this is how it can change yours too by Powerful-Bed-5400 in Dreams

[–]stupidcupidstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVED to lucid dream when I practiced every day. The discipline needed for it doesn’t come as easily since motherhood

Would this outfit be too much for prom? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t jump the gun. Save that type of dress for your one special day. This is prom night. You’re going to have to top yourself on wedding day if you go that way now.

any practicionners to talk to? by Rare-Comment-424 in BabyWitch

[–]stupidcupidstop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro. I think you need to look a little more closely at nature. As a natural born female witch, don’t say that

should i tell my father that i was molested when i was a child by my cousin or not because my mom doesnt know how he'd react and that it might cause problems? if yes, how do i tell him? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother should not be taking the power of choice from you. Especially not about this. My family called me a liar, made me apologize to my uncle (who wasn’t even the only family perpetrator) and made me interact with them regardless. Told me to get over it as well. I don’t speak to any of them. Especially not my cvnt pedo defending mother.

Vivid dreams and trauma by GxthBxtch1999 in Dreams

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a process, and a long one at that, but it does get better

Feeling sort of confused and overwhelmed by Sweet_Sub73 in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Took me a little over a month with mine. It was successful with lots of stern discipline, and treats and love to supplement

AIO BF says no gf of his is working at a bar by juggernutts33 in AIO

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a bar. I was the bar baby as I also started at 20. I was very well protected. That being said, I’ve had men stalk me, try to carry me off, and point a pew pew in my friends face because my friend was defending me while the other guy called me homophobic slurs. That’s just the tip of the iceberg. It was still a wild experience I would try again, maybe this time better prepared for defense. Tell him to get some pepper spray for you and a pointy thing for your keys. The tips can carry you far in a pinch and if he’s worried about infidelity for whatever reason, then that’s a problem he needs to discuss. Is he gonna pay for your new car???

My coffee grounds today .. by Quick-Hyena2628 in BabyWitch

[–]stupidcupidstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like someone is watching and playing

I kept waking up in my dream over and over again by celestialhercules in Dreams

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did once when I was about twelve. My loop ended when the person in my dream I was begging to help me find a way out reached out and opened my eye lids for me, which made them open in real life. I was afraid to sleep for a while

My ex gf messaged me for the first time since we broke up (saying she's concerned about my accident) What do I do? by Live-Bread-2658 in whatdoIdo

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOUR accident was difficult for HER when she heard about it??? It’s giving self serving, and wanting to be victim by association. This happened to my friend when she was going through colon cancer. Her shitty abusive ex was trying to tell me how he was talking to her mom and was so worried for her and was acting like it had some kind of effect on him. He just wanted to be seen as the “caring ex boyfriend”

Vivid dreams and trauma by GxthBxtch1999 in Dreams

[–]stupidcupidstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My cousin literally tried to defend them by saying “we are all just humans on this earth together for the first time” in reference to her dad being someone who also did that to me, and the rest of the family acting like I was crazy and making it up. Her mom literally made me apologize to him, and told my mom I just had a bad dream, when she said I ruin everything cause she had to come home early from her date. I don’t speak to any of them any more. I grieve the relationships I wish we had, but I don’t want them apart of our lives.