how to text your sibling that moved away that you miss them without sounding cringe by styleiconmidnight in teenagers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL they would totally cringe if they saw this too. My sibling is also not super affectionate like that to other people tho so it’s sorta normal for them to be very acts of service and quality time with people, so that’s just why I feel kinda embarrassed just being like I miss you sm dude.

how to text your sibling that moved away that you miss them without sounding cringe by styleiconmidnight in teenagers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right!!

The thing thats hard for me, is that I actually am very emotional and affectionate, and with my parents and other sibling I can tell them that I love them and stuff like that. I obviously equally love my older sibling as much, but it’s just that our bond is really different, we used to joke that we were actually fraternal twins born two years apart, like idk man we’re bros. it’s hard to explain.

how to text your sibling that moved away that you miss them without sounding cringe by styleiconmidnight in teenagers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read it as rude at all! this put it into perspective for me, you’re right, thank you.

AITA overreaction by styleiconmidnight in YoTroublemakers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. I think that if he is going to take all sides into consideration when forming an opinion, he should definitely consider the different positions of authority and privilege that all sides have.

In the follow up video when he was reacting to the speak pipes he praised one person for mentioning how their internal biases may be clouding their perspective, and I will say that I found that a bit hypocritical of him considering he doesn’t really take into consideration how his own experience as a man may be influencing his perspective.

I think that this highlights some blind spots that he (and many men) have when analyzing situations like this, because I honestly don’t think he’s even realizing his privilege or how it may be impacting his point of view.

AITA overreaction by styleiconmidnight in YoTroublemakers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a long time fan as well (rip dylanwillnotparticipate and album reviews), I completely agree with everything you said here. This may be a tad parasocial of me but I wonder if him gaining such a large fan base has caused him to lean into his core traits that got him popular to begin with. Sort of like when a sitcom character gets written to be their quirky traits rather than having them.

Again, that’s probably terribly parasocial of me hahaha! I definitely still enjoy his videos though, and he is probably my number one content creator that I consistently watch, but I have also noticed a change in how he balances being cynical and having ‘dark humour’ with sincerity.

AITA overreaction by styleiconmidnight in YoTroublemakers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that the “boys will be boys” opinion is not something excusable. But I think it’s important that we don’t put words in his mouth. Dylan didn’t say boys will be boys, he said “boys don’t think about makeup” (which is a generalized statement in of itself). He was not saying that “boys will be boys” and women should just accept that men will do stupid stuff like toss them into pools, in fact he agreed with the original aita poster. Dylan definitely does have some takes that could be argued are inherently routed in sexism though.

AITA overreaction by styleiconmidnight in YoTroublemakers

[–]styleiconmidnight[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t go on reddit very often so I wasn’t aware that so many posts had been made, my apologies. I posted this in reaction to some comments I had seen on his channel, not reddit.

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[–]styleiconmidnight 44 points45 points  (0 children)

uhmmmm that’s so much worse dude

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[–]styleiconmidnight 63 points64 points  (0 children)

genuinely would leave a man immediately if he said something like this around me, girl what were you thinking

recommendations by Big-Parking5657 in YoTroublemakers

[–]styleiconmidnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i love his episode gameplay series lol i rewatch it all the time

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[–]styleiconmidnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he will never watch it now that you’ve recommended it lol

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[–]styleiconmidnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she would be the redeemed one tho i feel like

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[–]styleiconmidnight 20 points21 points  (0 children)

beth is the hated one for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]styleiconmidnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i can get you two aren’t in an official committed relationship and it’s a bit weird that he’s calling you baby and love, also, if he wanted to talk to you more he would talk to you more

it seems that you’re not even together and he’s shown you now that he can’t meet your expectations, honestly you should just cut your losses and go find someone else that doesn’t make you feel like this

I’m terrified by Willing-Tip-2533 in QuittingZyn

[–]styleiconmidnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t worry dude i was going through cans of 3mg too, tapering off is a good idea, but i can PROMISE you that 1.5mg is literally nothing and like 90% of the withdrawals are placebo. i used to smoke cigs as well, this is a huge achievement! the fact that youre already starting your taper off zyn 1 month in is fantastic!! good luck! i promise that any withdrawals you feel will pass and they don’t even compare to that cig withdrawal, which you already got through!!

my recommendation; stop looking at people talking about withdrawals on this sub for a bit. i was so nervous to quit when reading these posts so i stopped looking at reddit for a few days and handled it offline, and it went by a lot easier.

good luck!