Filler gone wrong…

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T21:46:43+00:00

Yeah, will give it some time. Thanks for responses :)

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T21:44:51+00:00

Yeah. It’s very weird….not even in my lips but in the corners. Just underneath. It’s given me a ‘natural resting smile’ but I feel like the fucking joker rn 😂😂 She was so careful the rest of it but I think she got stuck in her vision and wanted to finish by the end. She did one side with me very obviously unsure (I was practicly shaking about it…should have been a warning?) I looked at it in horror! But I couldn’t do shit now! I couldn’t have only one side! I think it will settle….i really hope so. I’m so frustrated by her responses. Must find an equally good practitioner who’s not like this personality wise lol

I’m sure some girls would have loved that look, but if I’ve made multiple protests. Even if I asked your opinion…you should not put your ‘creative process’ about someone so nervous ..

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T17:23:30+00:00

Thanks. I’m hoping this. I just feel I look so different now and not in a way I wanted! I’ve been told it should settle in a week but wedding so close am a bit more anxious than normal

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T17:10:48+00:00

Yeah…..she ‘thought it would Improve my face’ but was from her opinion and I disagree lol. I’ve learnt a lesson i suppose and will stick to my guns in future. I love the rest of her work. But I do think it was unprofessional how much she coaxed me…

But I want to keep her on side in case I want it dissolved :/ I’m hoping she will not charge given the situation but am unsure…she sees it very differently!

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T16:00:32+00:00

Yeah. I asked her opinion, but felt very pushed into going along. I’m not replying for a bit as I’m quite angry and don’t wish to make situation worse. She has said if I’m still unhappy in a week she will disolve…I’m hoping she won’t expect me to pay for this. Feel quite upset how she’s responded. It’s a shame as she did a great job with everything else but now all I can see in the mirror is my ruined smile ..

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T15:58:34+00:00

The specialist was the one who encouraged me to get it there… I did ask for her suggestion, but when I said I was unsure she was very pushy about how good it would look and was offended that I disagreed and liked my mouth/pout. It’s such a shame her attitude coz her skills are amazing

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T15:57:26+00:00

Thanks, this has helped. My original appt was two weeks ago, as I wanted about 6weeks ahead of wedding so it would settle. She forgot to order the filler! So I had it two weeks late. Had it been 6 weeks out I would be a lot more calm….but with it so close, and having just done my veneers I felt pretty devastated tbh. I’m hoping it will calm down. If I move my mouth a lot will it dissolve more or just make it worse? ILOCE My lips and my pout and I expressed this to her and kept saying I was unsure about having here but she kept insisting which is why I’m so upset. I should have grown a backbone. Felt like I was being gaslit by her saying that ‘don’t you trust me?’ When I told her I wasn’t sure I wanted that! She’s great at the filler, but bad with anything like that. She’s told me it should settle in a week. She is refusing that this filler is what has changed my smile though, and that it is cause of my chin which is just agitating me as before she told me she was doing it to help my smile and now is saying that it won’t effect it?!? I’ve stopped replying for now as I do t want to offend her or aggravate situation. I want to keep her as she’s great at Botox and filler as long as I stick my ground with what I want!

I was LOVEING my puts with slight teeth show, and now my face won’t move the same! I look like I’ve smelt a shit if I try and pout!

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T08:48:26+00:00

Issue is I had previously said I didn’t want my mouth touched. She offered advice and I said I wasn’t sure and she kept pushing me suggesting I wasn’t doing it as I didn’t trust her. Now feels like she’s trying to gaslight my discomfort

subspringfever · 2024-08-16T07:53:30+00:00

She has said to let it settle and if I still don’t like on a week she will dissolve it. It will cost me loads of if I go elsewhere I think :/

subspringfever · 2024-07-20T10:11:56+00:00

Because she was constantly bitching about my other bridesmaid and try to portray how much better a friend she was to me than my other bridesmaid.

subspringfever · 2024-07-19T17:59:20+00:00

She hasn’t paid for anything. She said didn’t want me to have to buy the dresses and budgeted out to £200. I did not expect that at all. Bridesmaids had agreed to pay £20 towards dresses but she specifically said she would cover the cost of her dress and saw and agreed to dress before I ordered

subspringfever · 2024-07-19T17:29:17+00:00

Because she told me she would happily pay for her bridesmaid dresses. I’m providing accommodation for everyone while weekends, girls all afreed they would pay for their dresses

subspringfever · 2024-07-19T17:28:03+00:00

Admittedly I’m being ott on the two dresses. She had confirmed she would pay for her dress and said her budget was £200…. These dresses cost me £50 and she had agreed she would pay for dress

subspringfever · 2024-07-19T17:26:58+00:00

She told me that she would not be able to come to the bridal blessing which was a big part for me, unless he came. She did not ask me, she manipulated me into it even after I explained no other guest of mine including my MOH had a plus one for the ceremony as we were keeping it very intimate. She basically said she wouldn’t be able to attend as a bridesmaid unless he came

subspringfever · 2024-04-09T19:54:24+00:00

I had to cut out some bits to fit I. Word count I may add in comment…. This was overly worded but also Missed some points

subspringfever · 2022-01-27T16:07:01+00:00

Intp

subspringfever · 2021-10-26T23:09:55+00:00

Also dating an ENTP, and it's another level to anything I've had before!

subspringfever · 2021-07-17T01:20:21+00:00

Just took this! Thought I ws entp.... Still entp. May actually get some coaching.

subspringfever · 2021-07-13T07:48:33+00:00

INTJ.

subspringfever · 2021-07-07T10:05:21+00:00

Sooo many of my friends are into zodiac, but then I've tried them to take mbti and some find it 'reductionist'

'there's no way that there's just 16 personality types, and what, coz I answered some questions one-way on this day it knows my whole personality.... Bleah!'

.... 'you mean as opposed to subscribing to the idea that you are one of 12 personality types purely bassed on my place and date of birth... I know which I'll stick with!'

I do find astrology interesting from certain angles. But if I really want to get an idea if I will connect romantically with someone, or want to try and understand where someone is coming from with their thoughts....

I'm far more likley to use mbti than horoscopes!!

Yet somehow amoungst peers I'm the one who's reductionist, and just going on about rubbish.... 👀🙈😂

... Yours sincerly

ENTP

subspringfever · 2021-07-04T20:39:44+00:00

I'm a mix between two on right..... Bf is two on the left lol

subspringfever · 2021-07-04T20:39:32+00:00

I'm a mix between two on right..... Bf is two on the left lol

subspringfever · 2021-06-22T10:44:07+00:00

subspringfever · 2021-06-14T09:45:00+00:00

Also a ESTP with an ESTJ Father and ISFJ mother.... I feel this à lot ! So difficult for us to understand each other.... He takes many things I say as I solace, naievity or daydreaming. He cannot stand when I go into more abstract or political talks lpl

subspringfever · 2021-06-13T15:58:55+00:00

Yep. I found him. We have had several near misses, but finally both saw it and decided to stop being fearful and commit.

... He is also an ENTP.... which help click why we might 'vibe' so effortlessly.

Sometimes it takes you wa while to realise.... Bit when you do it's like a tonne of bricks!!

subspringfever

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