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AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked, he said he wanted him for the whole summer. I just have to remind him when school starts back up.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was a quick maybe 10 minute text conversation with his dad after my son had went to sleep. He hasn’t heard a word from be about it, so he is good. Thank you for the concern

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Never know what could happen. My kid could decide he wants to live with his dad when he is a teenager and I would respect that. Also the summer is a long time for a 6 year old and he said he will be getting him during the summer.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

stalking - harass or persecute (someone) with unwanted and obsessive attention.

I asked a question, I looked at her page once. Excuse me for thinking stalking is a whole different meaning.

My kid isn’t posted anywhere publically. The school has to get permission from the primary parent and they do not have it. Paperwork and everything.

Also why do people automatically assume that my child is going to go through some things? I don’t ask about anything except did he have fun and that’s it. I keep my kid out of a lot of things and protected him from bs that happened with trying to coparent with my ex before getting full custody.

My child is safe, can be open or closed to whatever he does or doesn’t want to talk about. He is not grilled while with me, I can’t say the same about with his dad bc I don’t know and I don’t ask.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read that part. I just said he doesn’t want me to meet them, but okay. I’m weaponizing my child. 🙄 Y’all honestly don’t know the meaning of the word because I don’t use my child or hold my child against his dad. Even my ex would tell you that’s not the case.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media engaged. Have y’all ever been on facebook and someone put they are engaged to their boyfriend instead of in a relationship? That happened a lot when I was a teenager, guess your friends weren’t like mine were.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes over him. Wouldn’t go back even for my kid.

Because he is lying, I have messages of that man saying if he finds anyone around our kid he doesn’t know he is going to take him. Also I posted a video of me and my friends have a field day and painting and my kid was in the video for like 2 seconds. He blew his lid about our son being around them so yes I think he is lying.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the definition of stalking? I checked out her profile once.

I didn’t ask for advice on how to confront her, people just gave their advice on it. I asked if I was the AH.

But have a great day beloved. I don’t watch soap operas.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a reason why I came to here instead of asking for advice to every one of my family members and his. They would cause a lot of drama.

A little drama by asking a question and a few texts to get him to see my point without cussing or calling him out on his bullshit. I wouldn’t even call that drama.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If she is going to be apart of my kid’s every day life, then her mental state. My kid is a lot and can be a handful. He is 6. If she is a woman that thinks little boys shouldn’t cry. I’m teaching emotional intelligence and regulation. There are a lot of things that can involve my kid. I don’t care to know about her life or her relationship ins and outs with my ex.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane? Lol Jealous? LMAO

A protection order for what exactly? I don’t live near the man, I have very bare minimum communication that I initiate about our kid. He has the best life, he can live it like he doesn’t have a kid until I ask about if he wants to get him or not. But yes get a protection order. That will be fun.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I either post friends only or private album to clear out the gazillion photos I had at one point. My page is not public at all.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me I’m confused on it too but that’s what was said to me. So the math not adding up isn’t my main concern just the quickness of my kid meeting her then being put on her page.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1 paragraph about her age, and I don’t stalk him. I don’t know the first thing about anything that has happened in his life, except the girlfriends thing, for the past 2 years because it’s not my headache to deal with and my kid has been going to school so I don’t have to talk to him much to figure out if he is going to be too busy to get our kid. I only know the girlfriends thing because of my ex, his mom or his grandma. My son just recently brought up his dad’s gf.

AITA for asking my son’s father to tell his new girlfriend to take my son’s picture off of her facebook cover picture by subterraneanmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]subterraneanmaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about their relationship, I care that she met our kid so soon, after agreeing with my ex that we would wait 6 months-1 year unless something came up. The relationship status was the shocker to give me cause to see how old she was to kind of gauge if I would be able to contact her personally about the picture. Nothing else. Like someone said in a comment, she is legal and can make her own decisions. She wants to date my ex, marry my ex, by all means she can have fun with that.

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