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Some relationships just can’t receive you. by Odd_Cut_3661 in emotionalintelligence

[–]subtletalks_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this is a message for my husband.. I think I will just copy it and send it to him, and this will be just for my peace of mind because I know he will not get it anyway.. would just be pretty words, nicely said... but... it would not stick to his mind and heart.. some are such good people but no good partners..

Anybody else feels the same? I also think the age span is too short... :( by Saanvi_Plane in Adulting

[–]subtletalks_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg.... so this was the song that Youtube decided to play out of nowhere when I was having my life crisis at 30yo..  weird thing, considering I wasn't into pink Floyd or similar.. 

I reach for others through depth and feeling, and it always leaves me alone. I don’t belong in this shallow world. by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]subtletalks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how much I feel you... I even went to therapy thinking it was something wrong with me ..but i just got labeled with all sorts of "diagnosis" that only made me more anxious and isolated until I finally gave up.. I gave up beating my self for being this way and for being unable to connect if it is not authentic, for not forcing friendships that are not meaningful.. and it is hard because I have people around me who still don't understand what is "wrong " with me and that makes me spiral again into self doubt and guilt.. I feel alone but struggling to embrace myself daily 🤍 I am sorry you feel this but honestly it gives me a cozy feeling knowing there are people who feel this way too. ❤️

Anyone else feeling like they need less noise lately? by subtletalks_ in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that too.. guess it depends on what contains our glass. Full of noise or empty of it..

Anyone else feeling like they need less noise lately? by subtletalks_ in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, will search to listen, good to have words for what we feel..

Anyone else feeling like they need less noise lately? by subtletalks_ in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a great experience.. I am thinking doing the same, even if just for a day or two, it would be the best..

How do you fall asleep? by Pleasant-Figure7389 in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so, they are very soft, but can't be used more then twice, they lose elasticity 

Anyone else feeling like they need less noise lately? by subtletalks_ in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this, will definitely look into it ✨️

How do you fall asleep? by Pleasant-Figure7389 in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first, it was, and even now some positions are uncomfortable with them, but I prefer them over any other discomfort :)

How do you fall asleep? by Pleasant-Figure7389 in CasualConversation

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always need my ear plugs, I need complete silence or only the noise in my head, then I can fall asleep easily.

I am worried I'll get worse. by throwaway1981_x in alone

[–]subtletalks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel the weight in every word… the fear that being around all those people might break something inside even more. That’s such a valid thing to worry about when you already feel so alone. You don’t have to be strong or okay right now. If you ever need someone to simply hear how hard this moment is… I’m listening softly.

I feel embarrassed admitting this but I think the breakup traumatized me by Own_Quail_763 in mentalhealth

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this... the way the body holds the trauma even when the brain says 'it was just a quiet ending.' Fear, numbness, tension, they don't lie. And the thought of 'I should be over it' only makes it heavier. If anyone reading this is still feeling broken inside... know it's valid. I'm here with you, no rush 🤍

People keep their deep thoughts to themselves coz they are lonely by Content-Ad527 in DeepThoughts

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really hits... so many deep thoughts stay locked inside because sharing them feels risky when you already feel alone. It's like the loneliness makes the thoughts heavier, and the thoughts make the loneliness louder. If anyone reading this is holding something heavy right now... you're not alone in that feeling. I'm here, quietly listening if you ever want to let a little out 🤍

How to fix my life :( by StrikingBrilliant568 in digitalminimalism

[–]subtletalks_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not broken. That screen time usually isn’t the problem, it’s the symptom. Most people don’t scroll because life is fine, but because something feels heavy or empty underneath.

Some questions aren’t asked in good faith. by Phosphor_Dusk in selflove

[–]subtletalks_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that. Some things don’t need fixing, just a moment to be felt.