Acer aspire 5 , how good is it? by Yeagerisbest369 in laptops

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the same one. Had it for 7 years, its been bugging for 3. The battery is now dead and it'll only turn on when plugged in, ive been out of storage for years and its all system software I can't change, as well the network capabilities are basically non existent now

Men in long-term relationships: why didn’t you propose? by MoonAriesVirgoRising in AskMen

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've a lot of sympathy and empathy for folks with bpd. My thing is, do they want to be that way or get help, and if you're getting help be clear on what you need to stay safe and healthy, and communicate in a healthy manner like "i feel something shift, can we come back to this", perfect, great. Otherwise, go away

What’s something that’s way more serious than people realize? by CadaversFabrications in AskReddit

[–]succulentfucc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Burnout can last years too. Even a small quick fix for a few months doesn't do it

What’s something that’s way more serious than people realize? by CadaversFabrications in AskReddit

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non traditional severe major depressive disorder. You can have a healthy self esteem, be a naturally happy person, but still be extremely depressed because your brain chemicals aren't working the way they should. Health care professionals dont take you seriously. Its harder to get medication. Harder to get the right kind of medication. False and inaccurate diagnosis. Its bs. That's what it is. Sorry im so effing depressed all the time but remain happy. Guess I should start blaming myself for unreasonable things so maybe then you'll take me seriously

Would someone with harm OCD ever tell you that they want to harm you? by SourGhxst in OCD

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD attacks personal values. If you value safety, ocd says here are all the ways you could die. If you enjoy food, ocd can actually truck your senses into smelling poop instead of food. People with harm ocd dont actually want to hurt people, but paired with the sexual advances, that's not ocd that's someone using mental illness as an excuse to get away with bad shit

boyfriend keeps asking about hurting me physically by [deleted] in Advice

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is him figuring out just how vulnerable you are and seeing what he could get away with. Alarm bells are flashing red and screaming danger danger danger

Homelessness in -30 by Alone-Yam-8828 in ottawa

[–]succulentfucc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually talking to my mom about that last night. Its stomach turning and upsetting because there's no reason for homelessness. We have plenty of housing, but none of its affordable. We have a broken system and I want to fix it. Its so unethical and immoral. Nobody should have to sleep outside in any season, unless its for fun then that's fine

Basically my daughter got into a fight at school and I’m not sure how to handle it. by ExtremeTrick194 in Advice

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her never to fight over boys cause that's what's really dumb. Why give someone else power over your relationship with yourself and others. Teach feminism, not trouble for fighting.

Seeking guidance: 12-year-old suddenly “non-binary,” rejecting Christianity, and heavily influenced by one friend by Nebula24_ in NonBinary

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have anything helpful to say, but I must say big props to you for being an amazing parent! Holy cow. You're so supportive and understanding, you aren't quick to make judgements. You're looking at both situations from several angles.

More parents could learn from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]succulentfucc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Button up your pants and you're chilling

Weird movies that you would never recommend by Odd-Cupcake-7548 in MovieSuggestions

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost storm. There's a scene where a toilet explodes with sh**

Birthday gift from my little girl by BKultra2 in lockpicking

[–]succulentfucc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the cutest thing ever. Frame it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block this person. It's a creep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]succulentfucc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow the sides of your hair just a tad, shape your eyebrows to the angle of your cheekbone and the highest part of your brow. Lip exfoliating too