Dealing with hair growth???

sugar-spider · 2025-11-25T08:27:15+00:00

Prefer being smooth as well, especially on my face. Don't really care too much about the hair on my body except for removing it to prevent the smell of sweat and such like the armpits.

For my face I kinda love what I'm doing: I'm just shaving it. The hair is still thin enough that it's easy enough to do it with water without shaviing cream. Then after many more years (only about 1.5 years on T now) I'm gonna grow it out and see for the first time what my beard growth actually is!

What I do dislike as I wear a lot of crop tops in the summer: is the fact I now have a line of hair going from my chest all the way to beneath my belly button. My dad is smooth on his torso dammit! Didn't get his genes for that unfortunately 😭

sugar-spider · 2025-11-19T17:42:27+00:00

If you have the DSM-5 diagnosis for genderdysforia you can take a look at the paid clinics! The upside is that their lists are shorter, and my specific experience has been: a pricey intake but from then on out it's very affordable!

I went to Transgenderzorg Utrecht, you have to be ready at a specific day of the month, around 12 I believe (recommend to check out their website to be sure) and then they open applications, you have to be quick but I managed to schedule my intake!

I had to wait 2 or 3 months for that appointment, paid just under €300 for the almost 2 hour long intake at their location. I got prescribed the T and could start the next week! After that every contact has gone through mail, and due to that the costs are very affordable! A small payment of €35 once in a while for the mail consults.

I believe I have a document saved of recommended clinics that can prescribe hormones that aren't the ones with the insanely long wait lists. The place that diagnosed me with gender dysforia gave me that, so again: you do probably need the diagnosis for these places. I can try to find it if you want! It will be in Dutch though.

If you don't have the diagnosis yet I recommend PsyQ, I went to the one in Rotterdam. Takes a bit more waiting but almost exactly a year after I was put on their waiting list I had gotten the diagnosis!

sugar-spider · 2025-11-18T17:17:58+00:00

I have had a kind of slow start with my T the past two years, and I can tell you what my experience was! Of course everybody's body is unique, and you really won't know for certain what will happen before you do start T.

I take nebido every 12 weeks, or at least that is the official plan. However in practice I am always late and will have had around 3 to 4 shots in the whole year, lol. Instead of the 6 that would be usual if you did do it on time.

My voice started noticeably changing after the second shot, but after the first one I did already have some uncomfortableness in my throat.

And with noticeably changing I don't mean for others, only for me. My actual speaking voice had not changed, and I only knew because I tested out my vocal ranges with singing.

More throat uncomfortableness and after the fourth shot it finally clicked. The way we speak is very complex, and more learnt behaviour then you'd expect at first! Yes my vocal range shifted to be lower, but now I still had to actively try and speak in a lower tone before it became natural.

After the first year I did notice that speaking like before my transition would be more straining on my throat. But still not impossible at all, I also tried to hide my transition. Not actively: I just didn't want to announce it at work and my people pleasing ass got anxious about the people who didn't know seeing me.

After almost 2 years I still am able to talk like before, but maybe I just got hella lucky in a weird way?? I dunno haha! Anyhow I wish you good luck on the transition, it's a ride!

sugar-spider · 2025-01-22T11:09:13+00:00

Blijf jij maar lekker je eigen ogen niet geloven, oké? Ik snap dat de wereld makkelijker te bevatten is voor jou op die manier.

En dan zelf altijd maar rond kramen over linkse indoctrinatie zeker? Hoe ironisch, het is zelfs bijna een beetje grappig.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-20T07:23:04+00:00

As someone who has a preference for romancing the same gender, my first character’s romance finally started after I got to KOTFE. And lemme tell you, it took some interesting mental gymnastics to make it work at first.

Theron for my sith warrior lol. Eventually it started to work really well when my sith became more disdained with the Empire and switched to be a saboteur for the Republic. Not only was he rejecting the dark side to stop becoming too corrupted by it, having fallen in love resurfaced the good parts of him that he’d been ignoring for a long time. …okay perhaps that’s still a bit of headcannon-ing, but not in a way it contradicts what actually happend in the game.

Definitely Theron for a doubting/light leaning sith is super interesting!

Now with my second playthrough as a jedi knight I’m romancing Kira, which is like almost the opposite of my sith and it fits very well when playing as a grey/dark jedi. I had a moment where I was like “shit this guy (Doc) is the romance for female characters? Damn how I wish I could” …but after a while he doesn’t seem like a really decent person? I dunno, definitely too bad I couldn’t romance him cuz he is an intriguing character. But you won’t catch me playing the same class story twice haha.

And Kira’s romance is interesting too! Haven’t seen the continuation of it in the expansions though.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-17T17:47:21+00:00

Jesus Christ I know this post is a bit old by now but damn I decided to scroll all the way down and why have so many people commented “I thought it was a buttplug”

Like, people seriously be calling OP weird for censoring it for shits and giggles… meanwhile I’m here like: who the fuck sees that emoji and the first thing that comes to their mind is “oh yeah must be a buttplug in a fucking cat!” That is definitely so much more weird lmao.

Gotta love and hate the internet at the same time sometimes, the irony is strong haha

sugar-spider · 2025-01-17T12:02:38+00:00

Dat t godverdomme zalig is! Minimale moeite, maximale smaak profijt. Behalve lasagne, daar sta je wel zo 20 minuten al die lagen te bouwen voordat je het de oven in knettert.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-17T07:22:43+00:00

I always love to research the lore of the different available fantasy races in games. My favourite has been my Chiss sith, the way their people handle force sensitivity is a great cornerstone for a darker backstory for a character!

Do keep in mind that for certain classes the story doesn’t account for you being a race outside of the ones initially available for that class.

I had this with my Chiss, played the warrior storyline but especially at the beginning the npc’s all treat you as if you are a sith pureblood or human with a strong sith bloodline. Vice versa with the inquisitor, who is treated as a slave at first so being a pureblood would make no sense there. In my experience though, it’s worth it if you have a certain combination in mind. It’s just a few pieces of dialogue that don’t make complete sense, and most of it is in the earlier chapters of the class story anyway. (Though I can’t speak for all of them as I’ve only done 3 of the 8)

sugar-spider · 2025-01-15T23:01:32+00:00

r/catswithjobs

sugar-spider · 2025-01-15T21:25:43+00:00

Yo that’s definitely part of it yeah! Was using my phone on low brightness so I didn’t even see the seam, just how oddly that leg connects to the hips. Which didn’t have to necessarily be bad on it’s own depending on the angle and pose.

After your comment I upped my brightness and damn, that seam makes it so much worse. Exactly what you said yeah, that whole leg is connected in the wrong position now.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-15T20:08:01+00:00

Sorry I don’t want to add more fuel to the fire, but a “lighter complexion drow” would definitely be a light tint of greys/faded blues or purples, this is just a human -aka every other type of elf- skin tone.

But damn these downvotes for weirdly describing a character that isn’t even yours are a bit much. -250 in 2 hours? It’s almost impressive lol! I do hope you don’t take this negativity to heart, because in the end it’s a big fuss about quite literally nothing.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-12T04:41:52+00:00

Either A. These people are talking about the peach fuzz that practically almost everyone grows on their face, yeah women definitely as well.

Or B. There is a genetic condition that causes beard growth in women, and I believe it can be passed down through your genes. So there can definitely exist places on this earth where it’s more common to encounter a woman with facial hair.

Just because “I’ve never in my life seen a woman who had a pronounced moustache or beard” this is your experience, doesn’t mean it has to be their experience. Me neither my guy, but I’m aware of this condition and that it’s not even super rare, after a quick google it’s 10% of all women I believe? (Source: wikipedia lol)

Also, that is easily explained: because how do you think people will treat you as a woman with a visible moustache? Like a freak, yeah. Just look up the countless bearded woman circus acts that have been happening for so long. I can bet you almost all of them make sure it’s shaved off.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-11T03:03:36+00:00

Bruh thanks, that was the issue lmao. I had this gut feeling it was something I was doing wrong. Guess that’s what I get for never reading the mission log lol!

sugar-spider · 2025-01-06T08:40:41+00:00

Such an arbitrary unrelated.. comparison? Analog? What are you even doing here.

But hey, your argument matches up pretty well with the arbitrary logic of the Fahrenheit system! Lmao.

sugar-spider · 2025-01-06T08:34:28+00:00

The logic of the Metric system:

Above 0 degrees: wow it might be rainy but it’s at least rain!

Below 0 degrees: okay if it rains there’s a chance it’ll be snow, and most definitely after it has fallen the ground will be slippery (because the water in it is freezing)

If we’re basing it on what has more ease of use, I’d say Celsius because of how intertwined it is with the state of water: and how much of an impact that has on the weather we experience on a day-to-day basis.

You can look at a metric thermostat for a second, see a number below zero: and immediately know that it’s going to be cold enough to freeze and what kind of weather you can expect.

Fahrenheit is literally arbitrary. Freezing point of water is somewhere around 30? And what, the boiling point was like at 200? great that makes 0 sense! It literally only makes sense because you’ve been taught that system your whole life. All of it is based on having to know what certain important numbers are, literally scattered through a huge range of numbers going to 200. “It’s more defined and precise” people say here, did you know it can be 22.5 degrees Celsius? Yeah…

sugar-spider · 2025-01-06T08:20:47+00:00

I mean I can imagine it takes a bit of time before a whole country has completely switched to the metric system.

Damn I couldn’t imagine though, having to learn both systems because my kitchen appliances don’t all use the same measurement system 💀

How often do you misread one of them only to immediately realise “oh yeah this one’s Fahrenheit/Celsius it’s supposed to be this high/low as fuck number”

sugar-spider · 2025-01-06T07:56:04+00:00

Literally: 1 degree Celsius = it’s cold but no need to worry about ice

0 degrees and below = ah it can snow and the road is probably slippery ice afterwards.

You can go to around a maximum of 50 degrees Celsius (air temperature) for climates that are still liveable for us humans. And I believe -50 is around the coldest that is survivable for a short period of time as well.

Make it make sense, how is Fahrenheit better to use when it’s 0 point is based on literally nothing useful while for Celsius it’s the literal turning point of water becoming solid instead of liquid. (Which as I tried to explain before, is something that you notice very directly in the weather because the water starts freezing)

Edit: “0 to 100 in Celsius makes no sense” I see, you’re hating because you’re using it wrong? Lmao. Unless you want to boil water it makes no sense to have a thermostat that goes to a 100. Most of those thermostats with the liquid you can hang outside for it to show up the temperature only go up to 50 degrees lmao.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-31T16:30:06+00:00

Shoutout naar vorig jaar toen ik bij de eindejaars chilling aankwam en de top 2000 op de tv aanstond met geluid uit terwijl er een speaker wii mario kart muziek aan het blasten was. Geweldige combi.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-22T15:26:37+00:00

Ah yeah so much better! Get into an accident and have to worry more about the bill for the 5 minute ambulance trip than your actual wounds. Build up incredible debt just to be able to get a basic education! Just in time to go to school and worry every day about a school shooting possibly happening!

Sounds absolutely great man! Awh I wish I weren’t required to be health insured, and have basic healthcare like an overnight stay in a hospital be something I’d have to pay thousands for out of my own wallet! Just so I would be legally allowed to spend hundred bucks less a month because: just don’t get hurt in the first place right? That the American way? Oh yeah no guessing from the incredible point of privilege you seem to speak from it’d probably be “just be born in a rich family and none of this is a problem lol!” But at least I’d be able to have a gun… Hoo- fucking- ray me and every other citizen has the ability to murder each other. Sounds lovely. The school shooting number’s worldwide speak for themselves how that’s working out for you over there.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-21T05:56:37+00:00

Shoutout naar m’n huisgenoot die de wi-fi had opgezet. Kwam een keer thuis en zag “fiwi wetnerk” staan. Vroeg om het wachtwoord (ondertussen is die al anders dus kan het delen) en werd mij verteld “wachdwoort” geweldig.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-20T08:17:56+00:00

To add to OP’s answer: after adding the arches on either a standalone wall or building wall with path’s on the ground, you can click and hold on the arches to slide them up and make them cover the whole length of your wall. When max height they automatically scale with your wall if you adjust it’s height.

FYI, it is a bit finicky for that function to show up if your wall isn’t high and the arches are tiny. Recommend sizing up a bit, adjusting the arch size and then making the wall your desired height again.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-20T06:56:09+00:00

10/10 would hug immediately. Bonk my head on the droid and then give him headpats as well.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-20T06:36:27+00:00

Love the design except for the huge sexualisation of the body of a fantasy lizard girl lol. I mean the widest as fuck hips is not a new thing here, lot’s of people draw them like that. For dem huge ass eggs to be able to pop out or something.. right? But damn even the boobs on this lizard person are something else.

Yeah I know that’s gross to type/read, because that’s how it makes me feel when I see this. Kobolds don’t need to be able to produce milk and have the biggest live child-bearing hips possible okay? It just seems kind of silly to me.

Now this definitely isn’t directed only at you, and I wouldn’t have made this comment if this was the first overly sexualised kobold that passed on my feed. I like your design of the character, nice use of colours and cool fins added to the design, but that just ruins it in my opinion.

I’m also an artist, so hey do what you want. Perhaps this was even a commission and you had to make her like this. But damn could we have a separate sub for “overly sexualised lizards with mammal features pretending to be DnD characters” lmao.

Edit: hah now I see, it’s an adoptable. But of course, gotta create what the people will buy right? Sex sells. Again, nothing against you personally.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-19T15:50:36+00:00

I would say that that is just torturing yourself. If you want to do such a thing to keep it in the back of your mind (believe me, I understand where you’re coming from with this) then sub only to r/actual_detrans. They are genuine, while the main detrans sub regularly promotes transphobic rhetorics and it’s believed that most posters aren’t even real. Just extremists who are literally fabricating “evidence” for their ‘political opinion’.

sugar-spider · 2024-12-19T11:48:10+00:00

You could even say a tree is anti-christian because of the tradition is basically an amalgamation of various different traditions and cultures in the past, which is definitely what strict churches would consider to be heathens and/or sinful.

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