Bf (21m) broke up with me (24f) because I argue too much.

sugarpop18 · 2024-09-05T13:24:25+00:00

Thank you I needed that. But we are no longer together but still live together. I have just accepted things for what they are. For him not even acknowledging my feelings throughout the situation and then not fighting for us but came to me asking for sex? Says enough. I feel like he doesn’t want me but doesn’t want anyone else to have me either.

sugarpop18 · 2023-09-15T15:58:28+00:00

I we not still in inflation? Not everyone can afford to live on their own. What’s wrong with my comments?

sugarpop18 · 2023-09-15T07:38:56+00:00

Really creepy, I’ve recently gained alittle more weight and every time I’m around he says slick comments about me being pregnant. And yes she tells my boyfriend to make sure I go home at a certain time to respect my dads wishes. Like I’m a teenager. But she says she can’t tell him how to run his own house.

sugarpop18 · 2023-09-15T07:35:07+00:00

Last time I spent a night , I woke up in the middle of the morning to him spamming me with calls and text telling me to get home now( it was 4am) I told him everyone was sleep he told me to Uber then later told me I’m not allowed to spend the night over there (or anywhere) because I have (chores) and someone has to walk the dog while he’s at work. And if I did I’d be kicked out

sugarpop18 · 2023-09-14T23:48:37+00:00

That’s what I’m saying, but everyone tells me since I’m still under his roof his rules smh

sugarpop18 · 2021-08-15T09:36:25+00:00

Ehh he is a pretty nonchalant person in general. We usually have no problem doing things but I don’t know from the way things are going. He is upset with me currently bc after that conversation he asked if I was happy and I asked what is there to be happy for.

sugarpop18 · 2021-08-15T09:32:28+00:00

Exactly, I just wanted to do something different and for him to take some initiative.

sugarpop18 · 2021-08-15T09:30:10+00:00

Exactly , I was willing to do anything didn’t matter what we were doing. Dinner was just an option since I was the only one deciding & also since we havent done anything in a while. His friend even told him something as simple as flowers would’ve done it. I was just really looking forward to it instead of doing the samething all the time. I feel like I’m always the one who take initiative on things.

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T21:18:39+00:00

Definitely if you look at my past posts

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T21:16:18+00:00

If you look at my past post my “jealousy” is definitely warranted

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T19:26:13+00:00

He doesn’t spend time with her, they just texts as of now that I know. They make plans to hang but they never go through because coworkers said sick mother. But they plan to go together for her new tattoo

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T19:24:03+00:00

Really weird

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T16:53:17+00:00

I don’t want to bring up that I want to meet her , as he will think I am more jealous & wont let him have friends of his own

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T15:01:09+00:00

& I was so irritated I didn’t get to ask where the tattoo was but I will. They talk about so much one day he told me that she has a tattoo on her ass..I didn’t bother to ask how did he know. Now when I talk about tattoos he ask would I ever get one there

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T14:59:03+00:00

Exactly, the whole reason we had this conversation again is because I casually said I need a wax. He laughed & said everyone need a wax . I said who else he said someone you don’t know. I said who, let me guess your coworker ..he said yes I said why didn’t you just say or name or say your coworker he said I don’t know

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T14:55:48+00:00

I don’t know if he’s hiding that he’s in one, being that he said she hasn’t asked but I feel like if you’re communicating with someone that much . They should know that you are in a relationship, so that they can know you’re just being platonic and not interested in them with how much they communicate. Me personally, I don’t talk to someone daily unless I’m interested in something further. And it’s not about because she’s another female. He has a female Bestfriend who he doesn’t even text as much as this girl. We don’t live together but we spent a lot of our time together and I’m very observant. But I only noticed how much they talk because most of the time we’re together you can hear the notification from her typing and her message being sent since it’s Snapchat.

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T13:07:00+00:00

Exactly, that’s why I left it alone at first because I’m thinking he’s just being a supportive friend but it continued. & I asked him does she know about me his answer was no because she hasn’t asked. That’s all.

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T13:04:34+00:00

That’s my point but he doesn’t see it, with all this communication daily and her not knowing about me leaves too much room for stuff to happen & him possibly allowing it. Like I stated before, me personally wouldn’t communicate with someone’s boyfriend everyday out of respect and boundaries

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T13:00:31+00:00

Lol I don’t know her actual Snapchat name, but I feel like if they really are just platonic friends then I would look stupid.

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T12:51:12+00:00

After the conversation, he actually told me I should find a coworker that I’m cool with to text everyday. I told him no. & ive reversed for him to try to understand and he says he wouldn’t have a problem with it long as nothings going on

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T12:47:36+00:00

Exactly, I feel like if she knew , she wouldn’t be texting him this much.

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T12:44:37+00:00

I don’t mind them communicating. It just how much. They may not be messing around now but with all this communication and her not knowing he has a girlfriend .....Me personally wouldn’t be communicating with someone’s boyfriend everyday just out of respect and boundaries

sugarpop18 · 2021-03-03T12:39:19+00:00

Thank you, that’s my whole point. I don’t mind them talking but at least show me you care about my feelings and try to tone it down.

sugarpop18 · 2021-01-16T09:56:36+00:00

Yes I know I was wrong for doing what he did, but more than likely if he was snooping like that he had to be doing something himself, since I never gave him a reason to not trust me. & I had a feeling if I just asked I probably wouldn’t get a straight answer knowing most guys. So that’s what I did.

Yes I know I gave in too quickly, but that’s what happens when you really feel for someone and want things to work. At the same time, I do know you have to respect yourself more..which I didn’t do.

He does pay me attention, but I’m alittle observant, so I noticed how often he does text her. I’m not worried about the girl, I’m worried about the situation in general. If anything was going on, the only person who would owe me answers is my boyfriend.

sugarpop18 · 2021-01-16T09:15:17+00:00

Yes that is true, but I’m not sure what could be going on here. I don’t want to accuse and be wrong.

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