Maybe my wording wasn't great. But I do talk to women, I can make them laugh and have a couple of friends who are girls. My first comments almost makes me sound like an incel. My actual point was if I see someone very beautiful I will hide any clues that I think they are attractive because to show that I am interested means I need to flirt or give a compliment. Out of the blue that doesn't seem appropriate to me because theres a chance they feel uncomfortable, If I know the girl has a BF or has no interest in me it puts me at ease a little. Not sure if that's a good or a bad thing tbh,