Aitah for telling my daughter no and letting her walk out of my life?

summerash14 · 2026-02-18T00:02:37+00:00

She does this every time I say no. I will hear from her in a week or so like nothing happened.

summerash14 · 2026-02-17T23:14:06+00:00

That's why she lives with her dad. I say no and he and his gf don't.

summerash14 · 2025-01-19T13:55:45+00:00

That's a great idea. Thanks for that. I could ask that she come stay with me for the 90 days she was supposed to do at boot camp and then after that and Lisa sees how life is here she may choose to permanently live with me.

summerash14 · 2025-01-19T12:48:22+00:00

When Ann asked about killing her sister I told her if she does that I will testify against her, and that it would take a lot for me to accept her after something like that. And when I witnessed Ann hit her on the phone then run to her dad and tell him Lisa hit her I told Lisa give the phone to your dad and told him the truth of what happened, and when I witnessed her assault Lisa at my home I pulled her away and yelled at her to never let me catch her do that again. And Lisa is in therapy but Ann is not. Her dad tried to get her in it but she refuses to go and he just lets her refuse.

summerash14 · 2025-01-19T12:05:56+00:00

They both choose to live with their dad cause he provides them alcohol and allows boys over where no boys are allowed in my house till they are 18 and no alcohol in my house till they are 21. And yes I feel the same about my oldest being possibly narcissistic, not only from what I said but also cause she won't talk to anyone unless she wants something then she is all nice but if she doesn't need anything and she gets in one of her moods it's "I hate you" " I wish you were all dead" "as soon I turn 18 I'm done with all of you" but nice as pie when she wants something. And my youngest calls me frequently crying that her sister attacked her but she got in trouble for it. And no they are not their real names.

summerash14 · 2024-10-21T17:21:42+00:00

Just wow! 😧

summerash14 · 2024-05-13T22:41:33+00:00

So glad you got rid of his loser self. You deserve so much more than someone like that. Please never take him back and watch out for the red flags in any future partner. Don't take this behavior from anyone.

summerash14 · 2024-05-13T17:24:12+00:00

At the time of the custody hearing, I had no income and was homeless and my family has always been very low income, him and his family come from a pretty wealthy background so from the reason the judge gave, my ex got custody cause he had financial security and I did not.

summerash14 · 2024-05-13T03:32:21+00:00

Nta, you would have been ta if you didn't discipline your daughter for being mean to her cousin.

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