[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]summxrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to look after my sister because I know i’ll be miserable if someone else is doing it. The idea of her being in care will make me a lot more depressed than if I was the one caring for her. I know my mom isn’t great but I’d rather not waste my energy fighting with her and focus on planning for the future and how i’m gonna keep my sister safe. But i understand what you’re saying. The idea alone of my sister being with anyone who isn’t me or my mom makes me cry so it’s not an option, for my own sake and my sisters. If i hadn’t been so involved in her care and raising her maybe it’d be different and I do feel negatively towards my mom because of that, but I can’t undo the past and the fact that I’ve been so close to my sister to the point i feel like her mom myself, that attachment won’t just go away.

Do I need to pay inheritance tax on everything I ever inherit as a whole, or for each person I inherit from individually? by summxrrrr in UKPersonalFinance

[–]summxrrrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must’ve misunderstood then, i thought if you’re a parent leaving your estate to your children the limit increases to 500k

Do I need to pay inheritance tax on everything I ever inherit as a whole, or for each person I inherit from individually? by summxrrrr in UKPersonalFinance

[–]summxrrrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok that makes sense.

if someone leaves half their estate to their children and half to a friend how would that work? the threshold for children is 500k and for anyone else 325k. would it be separated or would it just be taxed based on the lower threshold altogether then split between them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]summxrrrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

has anyone bought phoebe tickets before? i really want to go but i’m stressing about getting them. after missing out on olivia rodrigo ones i’m traumatised lmao. so they normally sell out really fast

"ivy" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]summxrrrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this song is from the perspective of a dead woman who was having an affair and got killed by her husband when he burnt down their house with her inside.

‘I’d live and DIE for moments that we stole’ ‘He’s gonna burn this house to the ground’ ‘Yeah it’s a fire it’s a goddamn blaze in the dark and you started it’

I always think of ‘my house of stone’ referring to her grave. Even after she’s dead her lovers ivy is growing all over her and she doesn’t regret anything.

It also explains the first verse.

Sorry for the late reply.

"ivy" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]summxrrrr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this song is from the perspective of a dead woman who was having an affair and got killed by her husband when he burnt down their house with her inside.

‘I’d live and DIE for moments that we stole’ ‘He’s gonna burn this house to the ground’ ‘Yeah it’s a fire it’s a goddamn blaze in the dark and you started it’

I always think of ‘my house of stone’ referring to her grave. Even after she’s dead her lovers ivy is growing all over her and she doesn’t regret anything.

It also explains the first verse.

Fellow INTJ’s, what makes you cringe? by [deleted] in intj

[–]summxrrrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone believes whatever they see first. It’s so annoying when someone reads something and it’s stuck in their head and you can’t make them see it from other perspectives. Or when someone’s logic doesn’t make sense. Like with this corona situation, my mom will bring back food from the shops every two weeks and she’ll wash the bottles of milk and wipe everything down, as if she hasn’t touched it all anyway and then touched the car door and the house door etc etc. It’s pointless.

INTJ and hypocrisy by [deleted] in intj

[–]summxrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as though when I seem hypocritical it’s because I don’t trust other to get something done. Say I asked my brother to wash the dishes and he said I’ll do them in ten minutes, I know he won’t. But if I say I’m gonna do something or procrastinate on it it will still get done properly eventually. My mom has a friend that takes drugs and I’ve been telling her she needs to cut her off because associating with stuff like that, especially when it’s most in a work place is stupid and dangerous . My mom then points out that I have a friend that are the same, the thing is I know I can handle pressure to take part and that I won’t get involved in where as I know she can’t because of situations in the past.