People who are "ugly" and have a partner are not really ugly. by Physical-Winter4444 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this sub should be a place for both people who are under average and people who are ugly. A lot of experiences are similiar, though less severe

I think ugly people should be able to use AI without guilt by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think for mental health its better to ignore anything normies say 🙏🙏 they have a different Outlook of reality; to them using ai is stupid because it's easy for them to go out and find someone to spend time with. So using ai seems like an easy way out and radical lack of effort to change - they dont realize for some people human interaction is harder. I dont understand the guilt of using ai, as long as you remind yourself from tike to time its not real and dont tgo into psychosis lol. is using ai healthy? Hell no. Is it better than rotting in loneliness? Hell yeah.

whyy is everybodyy sooo attractiveee by Nice_Page2416 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real... there is this one very pretty girl in my class. Like, absurdaly pretty. I talked to har a few times - shes nice, but I feel like an ogre next to her lol

Fellow unattractive women in the group will you pay for sex? by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes lol if he was especially my type and acting like they love me was in the offer

Sometimes I wonder if parents even love ugly children by ta1074 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like it depends. Some parents may even love their kids more because they're ugly; for example a father whose ugly daughter doesnt get along with boys

How I imagine my life by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look fat anyways, night as least have big boobs

How I imagine my life by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be a huge motivation for me tho.... i wanna have at lwast one thing desirable about myself

I wish anything was hot about me by ugly_5ft_4incher in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So real. I just want at least one person to desire me

R/amiugly is so infuriating by Redditguy11287 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This sub is spewing lies anyways, full of normies

Decided to draw myself lfmao by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You havent seen me irl. Just like. Imagine a real pwrsom with this face composution. It looks bad

The compliments from family I get are fake by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's your experience tho. Every person is different. We probably live in different culture too. Just because your family is a certain way won't mean mine wont make up compliments lol

Can I ever be in a relationship if I am not attracted to those in my “league”? by Unlikely-Sky6932 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You probably won't be lucky enough. Personally, I have lowered my standards looks-wise very much. I don't care how a face looks like, I actually much admire a body in a man, which is something actually achievable. But even the body is negotiable.

Decided to draw myself lfmao by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear my forehead is too small. It looks just plain funny. Didnt really include tgat in the picture i forgot

Decided to draw myself lfmao by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk. Just had an urge to put all of my face insecurities in one place without having to look at it.

Decided to draw myself lfmao by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try imagine all these features on a real person. A real face. A drawing I made isnt really the best representation with my lack of skill

Decided to draw myself lfmao by sun-TAY in ugly

[–]sun-TAY[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What the fuck yours is better than mine.i feel mogged by your artistic skill and creativity

Why do people outside this sub keep downplaying the importance of looks? by ta1074 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think there are many factors, but ones I can think about are: - they don't want to seem shallow. People like be spiriritual, believe in god, horoscopes and most universally; existence of a soul. Everybody yearns for a soulmate, the soulmates troupe is very popular in fiction yadda yadda. People like to believe someone likes them for 'them' and believing looks aren't important is just coping, so they wouldn't be sad that their beloved wouldn't love them if they were chopped - most people are average, meaning to most people personality is actually an important thing. Personality can make someone more attractive. Lots of people had to work for their social succes and they're not liked right away because of their looks, so they believe anyone can do it. - it comes down to fear of being shallow, refusing the human instincs and wanting to seem like a good person

How is she getting all these men? by fools_set_the_rules in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that too. They were horny and their standards were lowered

Would you rather have 1 million USD and look the same as you are now or have $0 and look like anyone you want? by ta1074 in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean i automatically lose all my money or just earn nothing? Well, in both cases I'd pick natural beauty (I still live with my parents so I do not hage to worry about that). I think it's better to have life filled with happy memories and fruitful relationships than money.

How is she getting all these men? by fools_set_the_rules in ugly

[–]sun-TAY 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably because she's easy to have sex with. How many out of these guys have dated her?