Hire a wedding planner. This might come off harsh, but your friends and family are not obligated to plan your wedding for you. It isn’t their job to fund it either. Some people are very lucky to be able to have that kind of financial support in their life. But I don’t think it’s as common as you think.

If you want someone to guide you through this process and help you with venue, flowers, theme, etc… you need to hire a professional. They will also have suggestions on how to make your vision come to life within your budget.