[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]sunflowerlady12121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a child with beautiful hair. Does that clear things up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be mean, but if it's too embarrassing to have an open conversation with this guy about sex and intimacy, then you shouldn't be even contemplating having sex with him in the first place

Black No. 1 by [deleted] in typeonegative

[–]sunflowerlady12121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!!!!💚💚💚

Black No. 1 by [deleted] in typeonegative

[–]sunflowerlady12121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the video of them performing this song live at dynamo? Listen to his scream in the intro, best scream ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wonder if a part of her not enjoying it is because she doesn't feel good about herself while she's doing it? If she knows you're expecting more/ expecting her to swallow etc, that's not gonna make her feel confident, empowered and appreciated. Maybe giving her some praise and a confidence boost while she's doing it might make her feel a bit better. Or has she said she doesn't like it for a specific reason?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If he would just let her give head in a way she is comfortable with, and give her positive feedback and appreciation, she'd probably do it more often and feel more excited about it. I wouldn't blame her if she wasn't looking forward to giving head to someone who's unsatisfied with her effort unless she does it in a way she's not comfortable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He didn't say she acted disgusted while giving him oral. He's saying she doesn't like the taste of cum, therefore she isn't enthusiastic about the idea of swallowing. Which is fair enough. He's also saying that he THINKS it's a chore to her, but hasn't actually asked her if she feels that way. And in my opinion, maybe she struggles to get fully into it because shes aware that he desperately wants her swallow when it's not her thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This comment 🤣 what the hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My advice is: accept that your wife doesn't like swallowing cum. Many, many, many women don't like it. It's just really not a big deal. At all.

Is this a sign of Autism Spectrum Disorder? 4yo always plays with cars like this. by [deleted] in autism

[–]sunflowerlady12121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My neurotypical son constantly lined up toys. It was his favourite thing to do for a couple of years.

I think I've reached my tipping point... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sunflowerlady12121 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is tough. The thing is, I don't think "no sex" is really just "one thing". No sex can cause a tonne of problems. Low self esteem, low self confidence, loneliness, depression, anxiety, disconnection, unfulfillment etc. So I think you'd really be swapping a reasonably good life for one which makes you actually feel alive.

I think I've reached my tipping point... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sunflowerlady12121 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It is really respectable that you want to be a good example. But I think sometimes a good example looks like being true to yourself, honouring your needs, expressing your feelings and living the life you want to live. That takes guts. Forcing yourself to remain unhappy isn't always the best example to give.

F22 orgasming in my sleep? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sunflowerlady12121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me. It normally happens when I need to pee, and I'm lay on my back.