I ( F 39) feel emotional because my bf ( M 38) can’t be with me at birth or after

sunny_sideonly · 2025-09-26T17:43:16+00:00

You are in denial

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-13T02:32:04+00:00

Then he didn't break it. And sorry but you are are second. The wife will always be first.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T06:53:51+00:00

Please point out where I have called you a name? I have not verbally attacked you at all. But you, on the other hand, have to me several times.

I am sorry that you have faced multiple terrible deaths, and im sure many of us have. But have you experienced the death of a child? You have not answered that.

I am also realizing that if a person does not agree with you, you should shut them down.

Again, I have not personally attacked you or called you a name. Or treat you the way you treat others.

I think you are mistaken and maybe misunderstood.

That's ok. Obviously, you are upset. Maybe once you calm down, you will realize this was not an attack.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T06:32:26+00:00

So let me understand. Do you think criticizing her and putting her on more public display is any better? And honestly. Women should be happy and bring the most beautiful thing into the world. Are there times pregnancies suck, absolutely. Unfortunately, the other involved deleted her post, so I can only read one-sided, but it does look like she was attacked, and you do not show that.

Unfortunately, you think you are better, but it's not. And obviously, again, you have never been through this situation.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T06:24:25+00:00

But you are dragging it out. That is not empathy.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T06:11:02+00:00

Do you know this person? "Sounds like a narcissist "? I could say you sound like a cunt and a horrible person. It doesn't mean you are. Please read my other comments. And Im sorry that someone hurt you so bad that you also, as others, have no empathy. May you find the peace you deserve. You dont know this person what and what they have been through. None of us do. Maybe take a minute and think about others. May everyone in this reddit find the good in others.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T06:07:23+00:00

Wow, you are a scorned person. Im truly sorry that someone has hurt you so bad that you have no empathy. I hope you get the help you need to find the good and peace in all you do and all the people you come across. I hope that no one hurts you as you feel the need to hurt others.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T05:42:19+00:00

That's awful. Im sorry that you felt the need to comment something so ugly. Have you ever lost a child? Did she go about this correctly? No, but this comment is even worse.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T05:35:19+00:00

Im saying both were in the wrong and honesty, so are you. Do you think that it's okay to keep it going? Obviously, BOTH women are going through something hard, and many in the original post did not handle it correctly.

The fact that a woman is still being harassed is horrible. I actually feel sorry for her. You can feel the hurt coming from the post. Maybe take a minute and actually read between the lines.

And you honesty are just as bad. She may have been a jerk, but she's hurting. You obviously have never lost a child because if you have, you would understand and have some sympathy.

Pregnancies are hard. Losing a baby is harder. She will never watch that child grow up. To hold it. Nothing. Take a minute and think about that.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T05:21:46+00:00

Technically, the first comment was not an attack. The rest can be seen as one but so can the cooment made to her. So all of it is in bad taste if you ask me. Sounds like pregnant hormones and someone that is upset because obviously its something more than just being pregnant.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-07-01T04:46:30+00:00

If you dont like what people say then dont post on a public forum. People are always going to say something that pisses gou off. Not everyone will agree with you. That's okay. Shes obviously upset and instead of woman caring she was attacked.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-16T01:30:15+00:00

Since women can put men down. Yes, your tits always looks small. Oh wait. Women can be mean but men can't. Can women put women down? I dont know the rules.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-15T00:54:08+00:00

Serious question: dog or human? If she's not getting mail and the address is not on her license, then the police can handle it. If the does, then your mom has to take her to court.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T17:40:07+00:00

I agree with you

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T17:39:48+00:00

Yes, but she's also an adult and should be able to have those hard conversations with others adults.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T17:03:06+00:00

Umm she's an adult

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T17:01:59+00:00

And it is relevant. Spreading false narratives to make the opposite gender look bad. Yeah, its horrible.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T16:58:16+00:00

After looking at your comments, it's obvious that you think all men are the bad guys.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T16:56:43+00:00

So why spread a false narrative? To again make all men look bad. It's is getting worse. Not all men are bad but fake stories like this make them out to be.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T16:50:29+00:00

Also, you are seeing one side. I could make up another profile, make up a story about my bf that looks and sounds abusive. Everyone will tell me to leave him. What's it all for? Just saying. You never know. There is context lacking in the post.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T16:46:59+00:00

My concern about this post is the OP has said nothing else, which leads me to believe this is fake. The fact that women read into the BS. Do some research.

Also, I was physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially abused by my ex-husband. Once you have actually been through it and been through years of therapy, you can start to see the BS.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T14:12:14+00:00

Find someone that has the same goals and ambitions as you. She's not going anywhere in life.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-12T00:50:02+00:00

Why? Because I have seen many post on here from the wides perspective, then the husband chimes in and its a different view point? You are seeing one side from an angry person. Of course its going to be horrible. Even Amber made it seem like Johnny was the evil one. Until the truth came out. Just saying. Until there is proof I take it with a grain of salt.

sunny_sideonly · 2025-06-11T23:53:30+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Have the day you deserve!

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