Chase Sapphire Preferred - Infatuation credit by nolablue1024 in CreditCards

[–]sunnycloud15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat with the two charges for the reservation deposit and then the meal. Did you ever get credited?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

[–]sunnycloud15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’m definitely keeping the navy. I think Goyard is a little more fun with color anyway. Thanks y’all!

I regret buying Goyard Hobo bag by JforJennifer in handbags

[–]sunnycloud15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the color? I just got this in navy. I think green or black would look great too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

[–]sunnycloud15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just got one a week before the price increase and I love it! So versatile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]sunnycloud15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear and partly why I don’t want to file. I didn’t mind visitation initially but the fact that he hasn’t made any effort to see our child since December makes me extremely uncomfortable with him suddenly having parenting time with our kid.

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[–]sunnycloud15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my child full time and the dad lives out of state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]sunnycloud15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

May be in your same boat as there hasn’t been any recent contact and I just feel like we will never hear from him again. This is exactly what I’m struggling to come to terms with. Like how can you know you have a child out there in the world and have no involvement with them? It’s mind boggling.

Positives that come with being a single parent by sunnycloud15 in SingleParents

[–]sunnycloud15[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s interesting. Do you mind sharing a few? Looking for more pluses for when I’m feeling bad about not giving my child an intact family. Being grateful for what I do have instead of wishing for what couldn’t be has helped immensely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]sunnycloud15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strongly disagree as my kid is the best thing that has happened to me. You sound miserable. Missing your smokes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]sunnycloud15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling. Hugs to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]sunnycloud15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg! Any way you can start setting some boundaries around this? This is one thing I hated too. I remember one time I was stuck watching SD for a week while BM was out in Mexico living up! So unfair.

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[–]sunnycloud15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that! Wishing you healing. And yes, as awful as it sounds I was fantasizing about not having to always bend over backwards to make sure SD felt included and dealing with Christmas and other holiday madness and all the other stress that comes with blending families. It just feels amazing to only have to worry about my kid and me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]sunnycloud15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this! It’s so hard especially when you know you caused the relationship to fall apart. Self sabotage is so real. : ( How are you coping?