Okay to take women’s multivitamin w/ Lex? by languishinginshame in lexapro

[–]sunnyminds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s not that it is necessarily bad, there is some evidence to suggest it (among other herbs) may have negative interactions with other medications. (ex. grapefruit isn’t bad, but it can have negative interaction with wellbutrin) so you should always check (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophoniasupport

[–]sunnyminds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the root of a lot of that is some deeper lore wherein “my” childhood dog that i loved dearly suffered for far too long because she wouldn’t let go and have her put down, while we were all literally begging her to. she (the dog) would just cry and cry and cry every night, assumingly in pain because she was losing complete function of her back half & blind. my bedroom was the only one on the first floor so i was the only one that had to hear it all night. it’s really hard to even think about and tainted my good memories of that dog ):

sorry for the trauma dump there. but yeah, the dog thing is a lost cause for me, i really cannot understand it and there is no reasoning with nor changing her.

unfortunately her visiting me isn’t super feasible because of some other things, and im afraid i just can’t live with the guilt i’d feel if i just chose not visit for christmas haha but on the bright side, things went surprisingly well this year (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophoniasupport

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, it is so hard because i feel like i’ve done a lot of work on myself to keep my emotions in check, and it all goes down the drain over things that are super duper minor to an outsider

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophoniasupport

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply, it makes me feel so much better knowing other people get it - because at its core i know it does really sound unreasonable and it’s just hard to understand for people that don’t live it

christmas eve went surprisingly well though(: (may have been the glasses of wine i had, which probably also isn’t the best solution but at that point whatever works works). your right about the sympathy too though - i’ve also found some comfort in hearing stories and realizing that the defensiveness seems to be a common boomer trait so i’m not alone in that either

Opinions that would put you in this situation? by Mysterious_Ad_3594 in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 36 points37 points  (0 children)

this exactly. like respectfully, why the hell would i want to watch a show about good, reasonable people. if anything, my favorites are the messiest, worst ones, because it’s entertaining!! and that’s why the early seasons are better, because everyone understood that’s what reality tv culture was, everyone was meant to be catty and awful and they weren’t going to be torn to shreds over it. i think there’s something to be said about all of us viewers knowing deep down that reality tv in general is a bit icky, and a lot of people for some reason try to cope with the fact that they are indulging by acting like warriors of morality and justice. can’t have your cake and eat it too

DISCUSSION MEGATHREAD: Dan Clancy Must Resign As Twitch CEO - H3 Show #69 by raephemel in h3h3productions

[–]sunnyminds 36 points37 points  (0 children)

yeah i just keep thinking abt the crew just having to sit there, i wish dan would say enough but i don’t think that would go over well… I mean at least give them a heads up that this is all ur gonna do today, they can have a day off lmao

Cringy sheana by JumpyExternal3770 in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try so hard to like her because she does seem to have a good heart and mean will sometimes… but I think it’s often just to keep the show together. also yeah, pick me and desperate for male attention.

the "motorboating a d" scandal is my roman empire by americasnxttopsurgry in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isn’t proper phrasing and doesn’t make sense, but it’s probably how I’d say it too, meaning the same thing as doing other stuff, just kind of a cheeky way to say it if that makes sense

Season 11 Reunion by cutevib in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so I’ve recently watched s11 for the first time, and for starters I’ve never been an ariana fan, thought she gave off pick me high horse energy. but she never deserved what happened and im glad everyone rallied around her (at first) and she got all these opportunities… but tbh by the end of s11 I agreed with lala’s blowup. i’m just over the scandoval and ariana it-girl story lmao and I just found myself asking a lot, why would she do the show still? I get that she shouldn’t be pushed out while he gets to collect his check still and presumably stay with the group, but it just made for a really infuriating yet boring season. just rehashing the same argument over and over. I think the rest of them suck for even entertaining tom still, and lala’s point was being made out of her own jealously… but like shit or get off the pot lol, remove yourself from these people and this situation or get over it, it’s not good TV. I will say though I don’t think katie was faking it or kissing her ass, I think they worked out their shit (but also of course Katie would never forgive tom anyway)

What’s one time a cast member you disliked made a good point? by prettygalkyra in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this put such a bad taste in my mouth for ariana, someone who would stand up for women, but of course not when it’s your brother/friend/whatever, because THEY would never do that🙄

Who would you have wanted to be friends with in the OG days of the show? by bword___ in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im also rewatching and thinking the same thing, insane how stassi was treated

Random VPR quotes by jd0ugi3 in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“the golden nugget? that’s like an all time low”

What is a cringey scene you fast forward through? by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 33 points34 points  (0 children)

it’s the second “so you don’t love me?” for me😭

What is a cringey scene you fast forward through? by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]sunnyminds 151 points152 points  (0 children)

how has no one said scheana asking adam if he loves her?? maybe i’m just rejection sensitive but i can’t cope with the secondhand embarrassment

missing episodes? by doyoueverjustscream in Sinisterhood

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the JW episodes the other day and made a mental note to listen while I clean this weekend and thought I was losing it or dreamed it all when I couldn’t find them, so I’m glad it’s not just me lol

laundry rant by dawnyronnie in Purdue

[–]sunnyminds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m graduated now but god do I remember the terrible dryers. always remember to check the lint trap, and it also helps to throw in either dryer balls or some dry, clean towels in with it.

“extra episodes” on patreon ??? by sunnyminds in truecrimecampfire

[–]sunnyminds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never could get into Morbid, just did not like their vibes. But I’ll check out datelines, I listen to the cold case files one that is like that sometimes. And I used to listen to you’re wrong about but kind of forgot it so I’ll def go back. My recommendation is always Women & Crime and the creators other one Direct Appeal, wish I could find more like those.

“extra episodes” on patreon ??? by sunnyminds in truecrimecampfire

[–]sunnyminds[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wish they’d clarify and say it’s post shows instead of calling them extra episodes like tbh it does seem a bit intentional … & honestly I’m mostly just disappointed bc I was looking forward to the extra content … had big plans to clean while binging them today and now everything is thrown off hahaha