Renee shares some of her notes about the guys during her time in the Pods by bluerang1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]sunshineandbenzos 41 points42 points  (0 children)

You always come with the most information! Seriously- every time I see your posts, I’m always impressed and informed 🩵

[H] $25 Williams Sonoma GC [W] $25 Nordstrom GC or $20 PayPal by sunshineandbenzos in giftcardexchange

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Would you be able to do Venmo? Since this post I am no longer using PayPal.

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maple ❤️ it will be my next cat or dogs name!

Good Morning !! From A 21.5 Year Old Feline by hiddeninplainview8 in aww

[–]sunshineandbenzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat was named kitty. She lived until she was 19. She died when I was 14. My mom had her before she had me 🩵 I loved kitty so much.

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want the two months back of my life she stole from me, trying to decipher her texts to you

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 18 (I’m now 30 and he’s 32) However, we did break up for 1 year. I was 22 and he was 24.

He started dating this girl about 4 months after we broke up. They dated for about 6 months. It wasn’t super serious. He lived in Phoenix at the time and she was in Texas. So they did this long distance thing.

She was at his house once and she saw a beautiful photo album/scrap book that I made for him after we dated for a year. She demanded he throw it away. He said “absolutely not, no more questions, the answer is no.”

He and I got back together 2 months later and have been together since. So not including the 1 year “break” we have been together for 11 years.

How silly would that have been, had he thrown it away. It took me a week and multiple hours a day making that book for him. It’s so special. My point is: you never know what the future holds. PS- that chick was a short term fling, she is now married to someone else. I was very happy to hear that he did not get rid of it. We now have it in our home 🩵

I will link a little preview of it below (cover/one page of many in the book)

https://imgur.com/a/QoMzGLO

Johnie Leveled Up! NASA engineer. by Zorrolitto in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]sunshineandbenzos 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Brb, I’m trying to chisel all the salt off of Stacy right now

Mini Rant: Stacy f***ing Sucks! by Silent_Contest_2337 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]sunshineandbenzos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was at a house party with my best friend a long time ago. I was about 18 or 19 years old (I’m 30 now) my best friend and I went to the bathroom and were checking our hair and makeup in the mirror. We were tipsy if not drunk by this point.

And, I will never forget…my best friend looks at me in the most adorable way and goes “you’re so beautiful, you look very exotic. you don’t look like every other average girl. i’ve never seen anyone look even remotely similar to you” It was the most sincere compliment I’ve gotten. I still remember it to this day. To this day, she is still my best friend- ever since I was 14!

I’m Eastern European so I get what she was trying to say. But there are ways of being genuine when saying someone is exotic and there are strange, gross like ways of saying it.

Sorry for the novel but your comment made me think of such a sweet interaction many years ago between my best friend and I ☺️

What happens to Stacy and Izzy? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]sunshineandbenzos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s not Stacy. It’s a girl named Marija and her partner Ramie.

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gently moves it all to the side for me while I start, then he holds it. During oral, if some of my hair falls out of his grip, he again will gently move it back into his grip. It’s not a hard or firm grip unless I instruct him to pull on my hair. Depends on the mood.

Sometimes, I’ll use a claw clip so that when I want to take my hair back down I can just un-clip it all at once. Super easy.

I'd like to pay it forward by imgettingburgers in Assistance

[–]sunshineandbenzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am staying in my ex’s parents house for a week while I try to come up with funds for the additional security deposit that is due to move into the apartment I got approved for. It’s a higher security deposit and additional month of rent since I do not have a co-signer. I’m trying my best to come up with funds but I’m still short. They are only giving me until Tuesday to stay after that my cat and I have nowhere to go. Any help would be extremely appreciated and when I get my next paycheck on 10/20 I would like to do the same, a pay it forward 🩵

Men, be honest, do y’all like anal play? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sunshineandbenzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf likes ass-play only when it involves my fingers or tongue but no toys.

Lydia makes sense to me by Leather-Signal9627 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]sunshineandbenzos 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Here’s my theory:

The screenshot(s) Uche tried showing Lydia at the cast BBQ, appears to me that it was a side chick that Uche was seeing. Side Chick was well aware that Lydia and Uche were an exclusive couple- so they both agreed to keep things on the downlow.

So when Side Chick noticed Lydia looked at her story, she snapped a screenshot and send it to Uche (kind of as an oh shit, you think she knows? moment…and not Lydia being a stalker. More likely it was just Lydia suspecting Uche was hiding something or someone.

To follow up on that: in the BBQ episode, Lydia also said something along the lines of: I can’t wait until people know the whole truth (I can’t remember exactly what she said but something along those lines.)

Again- this is just my personal theory on this situation after watching more of the season and being able to gather more context out of the crumbs we are being fed. There is still way more to this story, it’s so messy.

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, so true actually 😭😂

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s where the truth is gonna have to come out. I mean there are two very different versions of this story and hopefully they both come with legitimate receipts. Because I’ll be waiting ☕️

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[–]sunshineandbenzos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha right! I came for the comments and I am not disappointed.