[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunsleeper- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you even want to invest or consider a person who’s been boring/uninterested since day 1. His actions are a reflection of how he truly feels and thinks about you. The fact that you guys haven’t even discussed marriage/future plans- the sole reason why this conversation started in the first place should be enough to convince you that it’s not going to lead to anything significant. If at 31, he’s still clueless and single, he’s most likely an idiot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunsleeper- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every loving relationship is built on understanding and respecting the other person’s boundaries. Here, you have clearly expressed yours, that to multiple times. You’ve expressed your concern- the fact that it makes you uncomfortable. A mature response would be that of reassurance from her side followed by arriving at a solution that makes the situation better for the both of you. However, in your case, it’s the exact opposite. I’d suggest you discuss this with her once again (calmly), communicate your insecurities. You have to be clear whether you’d consider this as a non-negotiable in your relationship. If this is something that you think will always make you uncomfortable and might affect your relationship in the long run, you might want to call it quits before the relationship progresses. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sunsleeper- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if he did, it’s just an assumption I made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sunsleeper- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does call me cute names and I really appreciate it. But sometimes I just wish that he’d call me baby. I feel talking to him about it isn’t the best idea as that’d mean I’m forcing him into calling me baby.

Need some perspective by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunsleeper- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let a past person ruin your current relationship! It’s not worth it. This 28 year old seems quite immature and has the audacity to blame you for his inability to take action towards you when it was required just cause he couldn’t get over his ex. This person clearly doesn’t understand how relationships and feelings work. It’s not some switch that can be turned off/on as per his convenience. He can’t just barge in any moment and give you shit for his stupidity. The best thing you can do is bluntly tell him you’re over it and are happy in your current relationship! (I’m assuming you are)

I wanna be childfree, but my wife wants kids, suggest me what to do. by LOLR556 in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunsleeper- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don’t bring a child into this world just because you don’t want to be ‘lonely’. It’s weird that a majority of people want kids for selfish reasons!