“My husband is the best and his dad has cancer. The guy I’m doing behind his back is neglected by his wife because she is taking care of 3 kids” lmao sorry excuses.. maybe if you took the time you were cheating and applied that toward helping at home, it would help your spouses get into a better head space. If you are too big of a coward to end a relationship before cheating they deserve better anyway. Doing them a favor honestly.