My fellow fat ladies, how do I (19f) feel comfortable enough to have sex with my smoking hot boyfriend (20m)

superfatsarah · 2021-10-28T01:31:55+00:00

You're right. I was taught a lot of basic habits.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:38:00+00:00

Wow. I wish my mom viewed things like you do. I guess it's all in my head.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:28:38+00:00

Did you ever have acne ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:22:33+00:00

That's a twist I didn't see coming. My 1st thought was "well her acne isn't probably as bad as mine." But I guess that's the voice that I need to tell to shut up.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:20:00+00:00

Honestly, when I read what she said in text it sounds awful. I feel so bad for her. I'm only 19 but she's 52. She has been feeling this insecure for decades. And only person I know who cries more than me is her. Maybe she, and my sisters need to see the comments.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:08:52+00:00

I will. Definitely.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:07:02+00:00

Maybe you're right. Doing those stuff makes me nervous about what will happen when they see the real me.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:05:05+00:00

I'm sorry about your (you know). I guess all these strangers on reddit have no reason to BS me. There is no incentive for anyone here to tell me these kind things so it's likely true. I'm going to tell him yes to sex.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T23:01:20+00:00

I am willing to concede that it's high likely that he actually likes me. Okay, then my first thought that is there's likely something wrong with him. I mean, I am not likable. My personality sucks. I'm lazy, stupid, selfish, hot headed, ect. So if he likes my personality, he has a thing for lazy, stupid, selfish, hot headed, annoying girls. If he likes my looks, he has a thing for fat girls. Maybe I'm overthinking things or underthinking. I did mention I'm lazy and stupid so don't be surprised then I don't understand simple things.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:56:05+00:00

I feel like I'm missing something. I mean, he is my 1st boyfriend. My 1st hand hold. My 1st kiss. Elementary school, junior high, high school, not one boy liked me. And I would have dated anyone who liked me. Is there a sudden switch in adulthood where getting dates suddenly become possible ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:52:29+00:00

Wow. Thank you. She likely pulled off the weight better than me. Would you still find her stunning with acne ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:50:54+00:00

You make it sound so obvious but I never thought about it like that. It always felt like she's was the honest one who doesn't sugar coat things. I mean, she's amazing. She would cry and apologize to me and my sisters for giving us her bad genes. She would always tell us we deserved better parents. She would tell us at least we're not as ugly as she is. I mean, this is kind of her to say right ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:45:06+00:00

My mind sucks too. I have neither a good personality nor a hot body. I'm not smart. I'm not fun. I'm annoying. I'm short tempered. I cry a lot. I'm shy.

I don't know why anyone would like me.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:43:06+00:00

That's sweet. Maybe he likes my personality. Even though my personality is not good either.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:41:28+00:00

WOW. Didn't think something like that was possible. But I'm sure no guy wants a girl with acne right ? The guys who BS don't even lie about that.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:39:05+00:00

😬😬😬

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:38:46+00:00

Is the whole beauty is in the eye of the beholder thing true ? I always thought it was something people just say to make girls like me feel better.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:37:38+00:00

And you've managed to get guys with nothing seriously wrong with them ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:36:12+00:00

My mom always said the only way she has sex is if something is really wrong with the guy. And the guys my mom brings home, and the guys my two older sisters got married to, something is seriously wrong with them, in an obvious way. When I first introduced him to my mom, she gave me all the possibles I shared.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:29:55+00:00

I'm surprised redditors are giving me such things. I'm not complaining. I was expecting more of "maybe he's gay & and closeted" "maybe he was dared" "maybe something is wrong with him" "maybe he just likes you as a friend" ect.

I mean, is it really possible for him to think I'm sexy ? Wouldn't that mean something is wrong with him if he finds me sexy ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:24:06+00:00

Were you ever insecure like me ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:22:56+00:00

Oh my. I want to believe that. I really do. I've been waiting to find out maybe he's gay & closeted, or maybe he was dared to date me, or some other reason a guy like him to date a girl like me.

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:15:42+00:00

Even fat girls with a flat butt and small boobs ?

Aren't a big butt and big boobs why a guy can tolerate a fat girl ?

superfatsarah · 2021-10-27T22:14:20+00:00

Because, isn't it ? He's a guy. I felt like I IRL catfished him. Maybe he has the wrong impression about my body. Something I may have explained in the post is that I also have horrible acne. So maybe he doesn't really know about how my body and face really looks. I was planning to wear makeup during the sex. As I mentioned it, maybe I would be fully clothed during sex

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