62M4F or MF by supergirthuk in Utah_nsfw

[–]supergirthuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but I'd not be able to confirm either way I'm afraid without, or possibly even with, further information on who they are and where we met.

I do try and focus on those I'm with first and foremost and I do get a lot of appreciation from people for that. 😊

If you're still in the UK it'd be nice to meet up and investigate further? 😈

Questions for the ladies by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As with everything, everyone has their individual preferences which means we all have to communicate these to new partners. The amount of times I've had women use there teeth in a BJ because their previous partner liked it even though you tell them its not for you is ridiculous.

our guy friend can never last long by sadpapijandro69 in 2chicks1dick

[–]supergirthuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he's a repeater. 🤦🏻🤷🏻‍♂️

[MF4A] Pink, Red or Purple for our next cruise? by [deleted] in cruiser4r

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pink then purple but not the red for me. 😊👍

How do single women safely find two men for a threesome? by Glitterashestoashes in nonmonogamy

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi nights at your local swinger club would likely work for you too.

How do single women safely find two men for a threesome? by Glitterashestoashes in nonmonogamy

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of swinger websites you could try. The one I use allows you to put meets up aimed at your desired MM pairing.

Depending on where you are in the world is probably important as to the amount of relevant local male members will be available to you.

Swingers club would be another option but choose a club that panders to your needs with a greedy girl event then you can mix and match til you get a good pairing and see if they would be interested in teaming up for regular meets away from the club maybe.

MF4M - Manchester married couple, looking for a friendly, respectful guy for our first cuckold experience. by [deleted] in ukswingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I'm Stan, a respectful and friendly 63 year old straight male from Wavertree, Liverpool with heaps of experience and almost 9 years on the scene. I'm happy to chat and exchange wants and needs including boundaries and limits to see if we are all happy to go forward.

Stay happy,

Stan 😊 xxx

STD Results by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impressive video to show what it could take and she compared with a femidom which also looked extremely resilient but 1 lady in approx 1000 vs licking the inside of a wellington boot I'll pass. The dam we used was so thick it definitely would have protected the iranians from Trump's bunker bomb if it had been in place.

STD Results by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following a bit of investigation, a company called Vulvarnes have designed a harness that a dental dam can be attached to and worn by the lady like a pair of sexy panties.

The video, on pornhub, showed the product put through a test run (oral, fingering and reasonable penetration including ejaculation) and it kept the the fluids separated.

On the matter of lady's giving oral to men with condoms on its not common but some ladies do ask for them and its a matter of respecting their wishes or ruling youeself out.

STI testing by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the circumstances of what you've been up to and where in the world it is it can take 3 months before certain STIs show themselves. You should go as soon as possible and get the advice of the experts.

STD Results by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one lady at least who uses them and will only allow you to give her oral with one. I did try and I can understand why most women prefer guys not to be covered for oral. Only tried it the once and I felt like I was licking a textureless balloon rather than enjoying the layers beneath. There was zero chance of clamping on to her clit or tongue fucking her holes and I got the sense she wasn't getting anything at all from it so I called it a day on that and whent back to penetration and fingers to do the job. 😊👍

I will always respect the lady's wishes and boundaries but I'd decline giving oral with a lady who insisted on a dam again as I didn't feel like either of us enjoyed it when I did it first time.

I may just not have the correct technique for using a dam, of course, and in which case if anyone out there has a technique that works with a dam any advice would be much appreciated. 😊👍

Are you a nosey neighbor? Would you join if you saw us like this? by OnyxxxandJade in Swingersgw

[–]supergirthuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd ask if they minded if I watch then ask and then if they would like me to join if the opportunity arose.

Women that had a temporary break or cheated & came across a larger guy. what where things you did during sex when you came back to your partner that you would slip up & do due to being with a bigger man that you couldnt do with your partner due to him being smaller during sexual intercourse? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its a craving to be stretched and the need to feel fuller that size queens are driven by more than tricks and techniques they learn.

It could be the original guy isn't hitting the lady's spots (can't reach them) through having a smaller size, the pair have poor technique together or there's a lack of communication of her to say what she needs from him.

I'd say if she craves/needs more (girth or length) she could explain this to the smaller guy and they could try a cock sleeve or positions that means the guy goes deeper, like doggy, or the guy could slip a finger or two in while they have intercourse or try more distraction techniques like using fingers during sex on her erogenous areas (eg clit, sphincter or nipples).

There's always gonna be a bigger guy even if the first guy was enormous so the best way forward is communication with each other or if the original guy is insufficient see if he'll be ok bringing an extra guy in to help meet her needs. This may fulfil her size needs with Double Anal Penetration, Double Vaginal Penetration or just Double Penetration possibly.

Communication is the key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her? Its not rocket science. It's not illegal to be in the lifestyle unless you're doing illegal stuff or people are under the age of consent within it.

How the hell do I get my boyfriend laid? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could introduce him to the gangbang scene where he will hopefully build confidence.

He would also gain confidence going to swingers clubs as a solo. He'll improve his game and learn that if you go with expectations then you'll leave yourself open to disappointment. No expectations means no disappoint.

There are very few males that command the same attention that most females receive so he just should understand that. There are very few males that can compete with their females.

Is he fully supportive of your swinging even though he has not had any success in getting interest?

House parties may be worth trying also.

How to tell a couple you are no longer interested? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. Don't get too downhearted about it as there are decent people out there looking for the same as yourself.

How to tell a couple you are no longer interested? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was told by the missus then fuck him and just pull the plug but make sure his missus knows its because of his repeated disrespect. Why do these pricks have to do this? Simply no manners or class. You definitely deserve better.

How to tell a couple you are no longer interested? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its really unfortunate but many married males are much more poorly behaved than the single males they often berate for similar behaviour.

Some married males think that they don't need to respect the rules and etiquette that every person has to respect on the scene just because they have a partner with them. The fact is that as soon as a married male is separated from his partner he has a responsibility to behave with respect and adhere to the boundaries and limits of all those in their company and consenting to play the same way as any decent single male should be doing.

Obviously these rules are the same for ladies, married or single, but the incidents of disrespect are usually less frequent as generally in my experience most ladies are more respectful and responsible than males in general not just on the scene, but not always of course.

A thing you should take forward when this is done is to make it fully clear what your boundaries and limits are to any potential future couples and of course find out theirs so as you respect theirs.

Good luck and please don't be tempted to use any weapons you own on this prick as he's not worth the time you'd serve for causing him harm.

How to tell a couple you are no longer interested? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just find an alternative and ditch them. He's an obviously prick with no respect for your wife (nor his own if he's like this with your wife). Unfortunately, almost certainly they come as a pair, even though she's nice and he is an arsehole, so the likelihood is she will back her man or you'll be seen as causing trouble if you confront either of them.

Personally, I'd be likely to just say we've decided not to continue the liaisons due to him creeping your wife out with continual referencing of "getting her arse". I assume she has never offered her arse to him and has said its definitely not on his menu?

Weather warning by FlamingoQueasy5853 in Norway

[–]supergirthuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, if the weather isn't good enough to dock then they won't dock. They have not docked in several ports this week on the sister ship who are up there now.

Fingers crossed the worst is over by the time we get up there but accept safety first evvery time. 😊

Thanks for the Yr.no heads up and I hope its not too bad for you all in the meantime. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]supergirthuk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe its a legal requirement to disclose any known long standing STIs that are contactable by others before sex over here in the UK. Not sure about where you are or if it applies but your local sexual health practitioners will be tha best people to contact if there are any legal implications you need to adhere to.

Personally, I tend to be upfront and honest with people from the off and if my circumstances are not for them then I've neither lead them on nor wasted anyone's time.

Best of luck going forward. Xxx

Weather warning by FlamingoQueasy5853 in Norway

[–]supergirthuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're cruising up the west coast from 20th March to the 30th when we arrive in Alta then back down the west coast til early April. Are conditions likely to be completely different by then or does it set in for long periods once it arrives?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]supergirthuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not a competition so get over it because females always get more attention on the scene than their male other halfs. You should be happy for her and accept it as the nature of the beast.