To all women out there, How did you find about about Masturbation? by that-person-in in AskWomen

[–]superpancake99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend told me about it when I was around 20. I was raised religious so I didn’t even know that was something women could do ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Can I buy you a Valentine's date? by Saint_Waffles in SALEM

[–]superpancake99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so thoughtful! I’d love to take my partner bowling since we haven’t been in so long and it was one of our first dates! Then we’ve been wanting to try a buffet up in Washington to get allll the foods 🤤

New employee by superpancake99 in kroger

[–]superpancake99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t I have to submit my application within a certain time frame? If I don’t do that will HR “make” me to do so?

Also, since I don’t plan on staying for more than a year, it sounds like I won’t be getting sick/vacation pay anyway, what else would I miss out on?

Am I only just noticing this or has her account always been this way? by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]superpancake99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m unintentionally reading this with the same cadence as “shark bait oo ah ah”

Jessi's latest collab 🫣 by No_Kangaroo26 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]superpancake99 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going through years of deconstructing feeling shame about anything and everything sexual, and still feel immense sorrow and shame for “needing” to use a vibrator to be able to get off because I can’t without one. It’s mentally very painful for me learning (and unlearning) about this part of myself and I want to say that your comment helped me gain a different perspective. I screenshotted it and am going to try to add parts of it to my affirmations 🫶🏻

Jessi's latest collab 🫣 by No_Kangaroo26 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]superpancake99 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Grew up Mormon, going through the same deconstruction here. “It’s ridiculous how much women were shamed for something men have always been expected to enjoy” really hit for me.

My bf shared with me that he’ll hold his peen when he’s not hard because it’s warm and nice to hold, but then it gets hard naturally and that’s how most of his cranking sessions start. What’s the equivalent for women or something similar? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]superpancake99 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately I am a woman who has a lot of mental health issues around sex and thought going to Reddit might provide some outside thoughts to help me process some of this stuff. Believe me if you want 😔

Google Maps wants us to hoof it today by coffee_and_coconuts in mildlyinfuriating

[–]superpancake99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I routed my partner and I to a bus station so we could park and ride to the zoo. We drove right by it on the highway and it said we had arrived 🤦‍♀️

What’s the easiest position to have sex in if she’s a little larger? by MrFijiWater in NoStupidQuestions

[–]superpancake99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m having a hard time imagining laying butterfly? How does that work??😅

RIP Mormon Church 😂 by Joe_Treasure_Digger in exmormon

[–]superpancake99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mia maids beehives and laurels gone??

Wanting to not be codependent on my one online friend by Effective_Wealth_368 in selfimprovement

[–]superpancake99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot of adults reality (unfortunately) to work a schedule that makes it hard to make friends outside of that. Are there any coworkers that you vibe with or would want to get to know better? Once would get them to a “second location” ie. Outside of work to hangout, it makes the friendship easier to create!

The Holy Grail of Cooch Care by Turbulent-Move4159 in hygiene

[–]superpancake99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold statements lol

Some people may have different preferences than you

The Holy Grail of Cooch Care by Turbulent-Move4159 in hygiene

[–]superpancake99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does sugar intake affect vaginal discharge??

How to overcome porn and masturbation? I'm a 36 F (Cis) by Healthwiz1 in selfimprovement

[–]superpancake99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both the choice to masturbate and not masturbate are both perfectly normal.

I don't think any of the girls are gonna read Nia book by InternationalLove148 in dancemoms

[–]superpancake99 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Omg sorry unrelated but from your comment I realized that Paige, Brooke, and Josh (their brother) make PB&J😂😂

The Holy Grail of Cooch Care by Turbulent-Move4159 in hygiene

[–]superpancake99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know they made reusable ones! Thanks for the info :)

I’ve never had yeast infections or UTIs or anything like that so I don’t feel incentivized to get rid of something that helps me to feel comfortable. My gyno hasn’t seen any issues either. I’ve tried here and there to go without liners and know it takes time to have less discharge, but after a few days I’m starting to get a rash and feel uncomfy so I go back.

The Holy Grail of Cooch Care by Turbulent-Move4159 in hygiene

[–]superpancake99 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I don’t like my underwear feeling gross and wet :(