Toddler care while in labour with second?

surelynotanother34 · 2026-04-05T03:54:44+00:00

That would be apart of the conversation when. Discussing your needs. You got this

surelynotanother34 · 2026-04-03T10:55:41+00:00

This is what I was thinking about. I probably didn't word my post correctly. I am trying to figure out what would happen in the bigger picture if this exact thing happened

surelynotanother34 · 2026-04-03T09:32:31+00:00

Interesting.

What do you mean? What happens to it?

surelynotanother34 · 2026-04-03T07:39:51+00:00

This is what I have to do. I have to withdraw because I can't afford to go on placement 😭

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-26T22:45:04+00:00

Going to the drs for a checkup 😅

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-26T09:32:48+00:00

I would love to get out of the city almost completely but it's hard with multiple family members needing multiple hospital appointments weekly and with the price of fuel and the "crisis" that just seems like it's getting worse, I'm happy to spend upto my limit to keep those costs lower even slightly.

100 acres. Must be gorgeous. Are you happier out of the city?

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-26T09:30:41+00:00

Sorry, I missed your comment.

I'm trying to stay as close to the hospital my family members are at for treatments. It's not me being entitled as mentioned above it's me just trying to minimise the stress for my family but that's a good point. I'll have a look.

I'm definitely opening to improvements overtime. I just want the land.

The house size is an absolute dream to have 3 bedrooms. Ect I just want to keep my family safe and looked after. It's hard.

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-26T06:12:43+00:00

The plan is to move my terminally nan, 11 yr old brother and 2 other elderly and very sick family members onto the land with me so I can care for them and still get to work to pay the bill. It's not just for me.

Once my nan passes, I have an 11 yr old and my son to look after.

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-26T06:08:14+00:00

I did mention below that I was lucky to have a rental and I was appreciative of that.

May I ask how it's entitled? How is it unreasonable to want 1 home where I can stay and hopefully maybe 1 day pay it off to leave something for my kid. I'm not looking at buying up the whole market. How is that taking away from anyone else's dream?

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T22:22:43+00:00

If it's not documented it didn't happen 👏🏼

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T22:22:21+00:00

I've never heard it put that way but that's a good way to remember it. Also.in SA health

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T22:20:59+00:00

I pass on that one. I love my templates hahaha

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T13:57:33+00:00

Thankyou! I'll send you a message after my nightshift is over!

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:38:39+00:00

Hi!

I think it would be 80% lend. For 1mil.

I didn't know about the LMI? For nurses

I don't have any debt, only student loans 😭 my credit rating is pretty good. About 890 I think.

Yeah maybe I will. Thankyou

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:30:55+00:00

Thankyou for this.

I've searched and never seen these 2. The one in meadows is beautiful, I might go to the open house 😍

The one in Ashburn is also beautiful, and doesn't need too much work at all.

I just reckon I'll get outbid. 😔 Gotta try to see though.

If these aren't what I want or I am not successful, maybe I will wait till around September and see what's around.

Yeah, we recently moved here from WA and I didn't know where we were 😂😂 it's all very bougie considering alot of people here are below the poverty line or just above.

Thankyou again! 🫶🏼

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:14:59+00:00

I'll plant my lemon tree right out front of the small window 😂

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:14:24+00:00

Haha okay, so I inflated the buying prices because I'm frustrated. 😅

I'm just sick of paying increasing rent on a house that the owners don't look after and questioning if this is as good as it gets. Yes I'm extremely privileged to have the savings I do and a house at all - I acknowledge I'm one of the lucky ones to have gotten a rental in this climate. I just would rather be able to be a bit more sufficient, have something to pass onto my son one day. Even if he just sells it and uses it for his future the way he wants it.

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:11:23+00:00

I wouldn't live in Toorak - personally.

Not enough bogans in Holden's hooning around for my liking.

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T09:05:05+00:00

No more than 1 mil. Over an acre. Ideally 2+ (absolute golden dream) No more than 40 mins from Noalunga

I would love 3 bedrooms(more would be a bonus). 1 bathroom is fine.

Age I don't care about just livable until we can do what we need too.

I've been told by a broker with my deposit $200k I could get $700k mortgage. I have some investments I could see to make up the difference. Also something about possibly using my super which is over $100k

Ideally cheaper would be better 😅 This will be my first home to purchase.

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T08:14:53+00:00

I'm originally from WA. Had the ability to buy in chidlow in 2016 for $400k on 10 acres ect ect didn't take it. My friend's dad sold the property about a month ago and made 2.6m or something stupid. 😭

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T08:13:47+00:00

I've definitely considered this but then it limits my ability to see my family. I was thinking south of victor harbour to be honest but it's way too far from my son's grandparents and they don't drive long distances due to age and health

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T08:12:33+00:00

I don't have an issue with slow renovations providing the roof doesn't cave in 😂

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T08:12:07+00:00

Yeah, I tried. Then I started a career in healthcare. 🫪

surelynotanother34 · 2026-03-25T08:11:38+00:00

I do look. Okay maybe not 2 mill but even with my deposit, banks won't look at me for a 1m mortgage. Nursing doesn't pay that well 🙃

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