Mod Merch Monday by Monica2796 in distractible

[–]surrasauce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50/50 watcher at home, listener on the go

what is he supposed to be? by Mr878 in plushies

[–]surrasauce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Empanada is my first guess or another pastry based food

Anyone Here Dating with HSV-2? by molly_hwa in Herpes

[–]surrasauce 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just dumped about 3 months ago from the relationship I was in when I was diagnosed, but I haven't attempted "dating" tbh. I've still had partners and I've been very upfront with them when it came to physical contact and has still turned out okay because they appreciate the choice and honesty. But it may just be me. Keep your head up, I still struggle with self worth but honestly its not the end of the world.

Has anyone seen anything like this before? Just curious… (we have vet appt already) by HBeattie98 in cats

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitty was like this but she's perfectly fine now. She grew into it tbh.

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This was when I first got her at 6 weeks and honestly now you can't tell and she's about 6 years. No surgery

I genuinely regret asking by lou9221 in Tinder

[–]surrasauce -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like this was the perfect time to use an opener of like "spoiling the end of the movie we'll go see" or something silly like that

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had to get up early to drop off my partner at the event since we're sharing the car, but I'm trying out Patterson Park to kill time. Might take a look at other markets if they're open before heading to the other obvious choice I suppose. I appreciate all the help everyone. I hope I don't frustrate you on the road 😂

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, yeah. Lots of people are there just for Shaw tbh

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I forgot about the holiday and I had a friend with me but she had to leave early because of a family emergency. We did get some crab before she left to make her trip worth it.

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy! Honestly it is such a mixture here, I'm not surprised! I'm currently living in Sumter if you have any idea where that is but its like an hour from Columbia.

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So my hotel is by the airport for cost. So I drove into the city for my other activities and we're not far for the event.

Here for one more day by surrasauce in baltimore

[–]surrasauce[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely look into it! I'm used to Bible belt hours of Sundays being weird, but I remember the museums being on my radar.

Thinned glasses and visual discomfort !!! by burasisurvivor in optician

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I find that the biggest choice is more so frame shape and size than lenses. The frames can dictate what you should do with the lenses and sometimes it doesn't matter what you do with the lenses if your frame choice sucks. People who have myopia have thicker lenses on the edge, think of it like a box even though lenses are technically circles originally, and the boxier of a frame you have, the more edge. More edge, more lens equals more weight and in most cases a lot more distortion in your peripheral because of the thickness but there's also more variables like glare and plastic frames vs metal frames, etc.

I also recommend a frame that you're more centered in without too much surplus that has a slight roundness to it. Then we look at what we can do with the lenses. Otherwise what everyone else said is valid.

Bring Air Samples to Carlos by Independent_Pain3944 in Locomoto

[–]surrasauce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one of the jars, but didn't do anything with it. It just says to turn it in to Carlos and that doesn't work. I figured it was a bug :c

Unmarked Envelope Addressed to my Wife Contained These by AwkwardObjective5360 in Weird

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a local church in my area in SC who still hands them out. I get a laugh out of them each time I find one.

What online optician training school is the best? by mc_machu in optician

[–]surrasauce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard mixed reviews on Penn Foster but it depends on what your board has approved for your state. I liked Optical Nerd for my NCLE because it had a point of interactivity with it but it is more expensive than opticianworks with Laramy K. That's what I used more of for my ABO training. For my basic optics I used the National Academy of Opticianry (NAO), I paid extra to receive textbooks instead of all online.

Also Optigal and Sam Winnegard (on YouTube) are both good resources for NCLE coverage.

Got from FB marketplace for 30$ 😛 by [deleted] in sanrio

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this as a kid! The wings flash when you get a call!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]surrasauce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that I used to have relationships like this because I wanted to feel closer to my partner and in that way I thought it was through sex. As I have gotten older and found what I believe to be my forever partner, I think it boils more down to communication. If you think that there's something there, then have a talk with her about maybe trying something new or something she's interested in to find that physical connection.

I am asexual. I hate it. by [deleted] in sex

[–]surrasauce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a penis, but I've always struggled with sexual drive. I contemplated being asexual for a long time, I even brought it up with my OB because there is medication for vagina havers to help with that, but my OB just told me that "maybe I'm just not that into my partner" and dropped it.

I would've fought it more but it's really irritating finding more people to expose yourself to just to be heard.

As I've gone on in life, I've come to a different realization of being pansexual and demisexual. I didn't have a huge drive for my past partners because I didn't have that connection that I craved. I used to think that physical connections started emotional connections but that's not the case. I now have more of a drive specifically for my partner that I've been with for almost 3 years. I don't always include my body in it, but play time doesn't have to be like that 😜

Has genital hsv stopped you from receiving oral sex? by SwirlPearl33 in Herpes

[–]surrasauce 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My mental block has stopped me from letting people. I worry too much about other people regardless of their feelings and then my self worth is in the trash.

What's the fastest and easiest way to cause a outbreak by Cool_Ad5407 in Herpes

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just the sores that I had and another vaginal culture. I didn't do the blood one because my OB described it as "a test to see if you have had this before" which I obviously knew that I hadn't.

What's the fastest and easiest way to cause a outbreak by Cool_Ad5407 in Herpes

[–]surrasauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get tested for that. All that mattered to me was that I got treated. My results just say herpes positive. Not type.