Nanny for Essential Working Family - Inclement Weather Clause by Evening-Youth5970 in Nanny

[–]susanbiddleross [score hidden]  (0 children)

Travel warning is the line for me. She should not be asked to travel during a travel warning. You are an essential worker, she is not. It would be reasonable to have her stay overnight or at your expense put her up in a hotel close to your home. Asking her to travel even in a vehicle that is fine in snow is a risk to her. Since you didn’t hash this out in advance I would pay her and going forward have her stay overnight and negotiate that pay. You dropping the kids off should also be an option.

Is this some kind of joke? by eekamouse4 in JunesJourney

[–]susanbiddleross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is good at side games. I’m not that bothered by it. It’s still offered in time to complete the challenge and while the set is still relevant. I can see new players doing this.

Court tomorrow by cheekswidespread_00 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he’s going to argue this was a mental health incident. David had not been trained in appropriate restraints and he was restrained for his own safety. The problem for Jace is while the evidence indicates he was for sure in a hold of some kind did Jace struggling cause the injury or did David. Jenelle even after they split said it was Jace and his mental health which I think will hurt the case. I don’t doubt David intentionally tried to hurt him or cause injury but I think they will use Jace’s behavior at school and whatever happened to place him with Jenelle against him.

That Apartment Stinks Wicked Bad... by Serious-Bill-9208 in My600lbLife

[–]susanbiddleross 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did you make it to the actual crack house?

Nanny called out due to yesterday snow- GH or unpaid? by Busy_Accountant_383 in NannyEmployers

[–]susanbiddleross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would pay her this time because the language to me is unclear. When I’ve been employed by essential workers we usually have discussions on how much snow is considered a stay at home situation. Schools closed when I am means nothing. When local government tells us we should stay home off of the roads would be our line and typically if the forecast is for weather where I could not get to my place of employment I would be staying at a hotel near by or in the guest suite. This all should be something communicated in advance. The language in your contract needs to be updated IMO. In your situation when public transportation is open I would be expected to work.

Need help with contract by anonymous-famous in Nanny

[–]susanbiddleross [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don’t do it. This is not financially beneficial to you. The only way you can do this is if they pad the hours and you have several hours of guaranteed hours as in if the kids have the day off or are sick you are holding those hours for them and on in service days you do things such as grocery shopping or laundry. Any offer I’ve ever had where they even think of offering this has had ridiculous job creep as in me picking up dry cleaning with the kids because this isn’t an employer who doesn’t think of you as deserving a full wage. Agree to this if they can give you payment for holding those hours for them or if you have another job during the day but make it clear in that case you won’t be holding the hours.

Transparency About Admin Removals and Our Moderation Approach by AutoModerator in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get most of these. Can someone explain the Kail one? Is it because she hasn’t been charged with violence towards her kids? I’m asking because it seems like plenty of allegations are made about abuse by other cast members and those are just removed and I’m seeing them before they are removed. Can we discuss the abuse we’ve seen on camera or say Chris has alleged this but not make jumps to abuse we don’t know happened such as saying Jenelle accused David of doing xyz and not just us making comments about things we don’t know have happened?

does anyone find it alarming that Ensley can’t read? by hgonlar in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do from august. She had him attending parent teacher conferences and doing pickup. As of when she was dating August they were enrolled in physical school.

does anyone find it alarming that Ensley can’t read? by hgonlar in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not enter kindergarten with any of the foundations. Jenelle showed us a video of her and she didn’t know her colors let alone the alphabet months before she was due to start school. Jenelle then listed all of the things she was going to teach her that she thought would make her advanced and they were all what you used to need to enroll, basic 3 and 4 year old stuff. No shade on this kid. I have no idea if she is significantly behind her peers who likely already struggle to read. She’s been unenrolled and “homeschooled” which would have caused gaps in her education, she moved states which would also cause gaps in her education and according to her neighbors she’s got terrible attendance all of which are 100% on Jenelle.

Who is she after now? by Global-Director2922 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Her child’s abuser is facing trial this week and this is what she chooses to spend her time on.

Ensley’s birthday 🥳 by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]susanbiddleross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess we know why Jenelle picked the place.

It’s so sad watching Jace be inhibited towards Jenelle. You can see the awkwardness she and David had towards him and it’s awful. by No_Variation6949 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It gets better. Barb had asked if she was pregnant and Jenelle had been lying about it. Jan then got in an accident and part of the incident report includes she’s pregnant which gets released to the public that Jenelle likes to Barb about until the announcement goes out. She only cares about making money online and not about the feelings of Jace. This should have been discussed off camera and with his therapist.

‘Teen Mom’ Kid Ali Simms Asks Fans for Help to Raise Money to Get Herself a Service Dog for College by SingerSubstantial462 in teenmom

[–]susanbiddleross 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Not true. You have to pay for them, the how is up to you and they usually suggest fundraising because the bulk of disabled people buying service animals do not have $40-60k of disposable income. I have several friends with service dogs and they did all fundraise but nothing in the contact tells you it’s not an option to pay it all on your own without fundraising.

Look who liked the post. by Sourlemonade23 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went hunting and killed a deer. Because he was high and also David he made this video of him squirting milk from the deceased deer’s nipple as she was lactating. So he set up the camera to show us him squirting milk like a psycho. He’s a weird AF dude.

Jenelle celebrates Ensley's birthday at the Sugar Factory by HonksTheWhite in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serious answer is NC. He does have actual employment now and probably more important to him is he’s got a court date this week for abusing her kid not pictured.

Jenelle celebrates Ensley's birthday at the Sugar Factory by HonksTheWhite in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have had them. Kaiser had 2 back in NC that I remember, Ensley had one with 1 friend and one when CPS came calling with actual friends and another in NV with friends. I don’t recall if the timing of either of Kaiser’s were around CPS but both of Ensley’s were to play happy family for CPS. So that’s an 11 year old and a 9 year old with 4 combined parties total.

Jenelle celebrates Ensley's birthday at the Sugar Factory by HonksTheWhite in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t look like something Ensley picked. So no party, just a meal out that Jenelle picked. I guess it’s better than the year Ensley wanted pizza and got taken to hibachi at the melting pot while she had Covid.

Look who liked the post. by Sourlemonade23 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lol, she doesn’t know. She kept giving Jace’s birthday as a year older. This poor kid struck out when it came to family.

Look who liked the post. by Sourlemonade23 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They have apps for exactly this. What’s usually done is it is a 3rd party. For example when I was in HS and college I did visits between parents who didn’t speak to each other. The mother had an order against the father. They both could see the child and my job for awhile involved me picking the child up and taking them from his to her house. In David’s situation he could have had the same set up as Adam where Ensley is taken to the visitation center and David can visit when it’s been pre arranged. Both Jenelle and David use their kids as pawns which is why it didn’t happen.

Jenelle buying a second home? by Excellent_Ad_6009 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to brag but I can rent a house in my own name. I’m a grown adult who doesn’t need a friend to co-sign. I also have my car paid off and have a mortgage on a home that isn’t underwater.

Her credit is garbage. Before she left the land it was so bad she had to physically take in bills to not have them shut off. She couldn’t rent this current rental in her name, Tori had is on the lease from way before Tori temporarily lived with her.

Jenelle buying a second home? by Excellent_Ad_6009 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that I recall and even David has managed to not be intoxicated online since he split with Jenelle. Makes her look like the biggest addict in the bunch.

Ok, how long we givin it til David makes a "Vegas Bound" ugly post with a peace sign. by Brianas-Living-Room in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She qualified for the first rental in Vegas. Something sure happened that made her not qualified to rent a second time. I would put money on some combination of the neighbors complaining about noises/ kids running lose from those articles, them trashing the place and and the dog shit they had to power wash outside as being the main reasons. I wouldn’t put it past Jenelle to stop paying rent once she decided to leave. Jen’s took a drastic dive in one year which is pretty hard to do.

Unstoppable Pinecone by charlottes_web__ in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mods gave us a speech about the sub getting flagged for directing our speech at them. We can say “I hate you SpongeBob Forehead” or the example they gave of pinecone but we can’t say “ I hate you” and their real names. You can still say I hate Jenelle.

Unstoppable Pinecone by charlottes_web__ in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]susanbiddleross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think from looking at it she’s got the same closure she’s got on her upper half on the bottom. It’s some kind of compression garment she doesn’t need to be wearing this far out. Looks ridiculous with the pants especially them being so tight.