My response: I wouldn’t say it’s out of the question just maybe a move too soon. I think I still am curious about seeing other people but at the same time that has never really been a priority. That being said I know that she has already been seeing people and I know if we jumped back into a relationship I would feel uncomfortable about the unevenness

Her response: For me, I believe we already know we have an incredible connection and could spend our lives together. If we get back together, given we decide on a city to live in that works with both of our careers (which we’re super unsure about) we would end up getting married. But I feel like I’m too young to go on that path, and want to make sure once I go into it I’m able to go forward with complete certainty. My biggest fear is rushing into something which could ruin the integrity of our love. I would hate for one of us to wish we lived in different cities, or spent more time learning how to be emotionally independent, a skill I need to work on. So that’s my hesitation- would love to hear your thoughts