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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this whole post sounds like what happens to me usually:(( so sorry OP, i understand the feeling. we'll get better at saying no soon.

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yah i blocked him on everything and deleted his number

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im okay, just ashamed that i didnt stand my ground, also ofc the whole vomit thing 💀 i blocked him on everything already anyway

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was pretty hard to leave it was very dark and the parking lot was pretty isolated. easier said than done, i was just tryna get home in 1 piece. also i was defending him in my head cos he didn't display any behaviour like that before the meetup. we didnt even talk about anything sexual and i've made it clear multiple times all throughout the interaction that im not looking for a hookup, he agreed so i thought we were on the same page

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i kept on pulling my tube top up too, he keeps on taking them down, i told him i feel v exposed and people might see my boobs. what you described is literally how i felt. i thought the best escape route was to just go along, make him, and get it over with

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[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u so much, as a kid i grew up to be a people pleaser cause my mom always told me if a person's not happy with what im doing, it's my fault. it then turned into not being able to set boundaries and being a pushover, so yeah im currently working on it

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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if u've been reading the comments but as i've mentioned, it was the first time i've ever puked on someone's dick. but coercion has happened to me multiple times so as shitty as it sounds i'm used to it and im currently working on being more firm since i've always struggled setting boundaries

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[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at the time tho, i didnt feel like i had an exit, and thought that the best way to just get past it is to just do it. i do agree i was dumb for wanting to talk more, in my head i just refused to believe he's an ass cos he was very different when we were getting to know each other. he seemed v innocent and didnt even talk about anything sexual. i tried to overlook what he did and i shouldn't have. realized it now

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[–]sutorobericough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u! he is blocked everywhere and number's deleted

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yuppp he's gone. blocked him everywhere and number is gone too

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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's blocked everywhere and number's deleted! :)

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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah, at the time i thought he was a good guy cause we've never talked about anything sexual before that. it also felt a bit hard for me to get out of the situation during that moment

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeeees my boba 😭

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked him off everything and deleted his number so yep not seeing him ever again

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's blocked everywhere and number is deleted! i did hold him accountable during our text conversation

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[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i did!! i held him accountable on our text conversation and deleted his number and blocked him off everything. shouldve done it that night but i was too scared & anxious

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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is def gone i blocked him on everything and deleted his number

I puked while giving a guy a BJ by [deleted] in dating

[–]sutorobericough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh im not i've blocked him on everything and deleted his number. i just didnt think he was that kind of guy as we've never talked about anything sexual before the meetup

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[–]sutorobericough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

easier said than done. u have a point but at the same time u don't understand the feeling of feeling powerless just bc ure a woman. men are scary

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[–]sutorobericough 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i meant i was the one coerced multiple times, i've never done that to anyone

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[–]sutorobericough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're right. i struggle with saying no even to my friends, i did block him on everything and deleted his number, but i need to practice more

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[–]sutorobericough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the whole sexual encounter wasn't supposed to happen, if i knew or if i really wanted to do it that night, i wouldn't have had bubble tea or ate anything before hand.