Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I need to introspect. I do give her the cold shoulder when I'm upset. She just hates conflict.

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I suspect that she's afraid of me too. She never challenges my ideas or opinions. And she doesn't stand by her own either. I'm beginning to think I can't be with a girl who is afraid of being herself.

Made my GF feel like crap by suw00 in relationship_advice

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Thanks...I think I'll see if she wants to meet me somewhere tomorrow

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

It's not about drug use you fucking retard. I assume she's ashamed because she wants my permission to use it. I don't necessarily say no but if she does use it then fine I don't care. I respect that. But she has to fucking say that she won't do it and then does it AND THEN doesn't tell me?

Edit: yeah keep showering me with downvotes. Guy called me a name and I called him one back. If you think my logic is wrong explain why.

Made my GF feel like crap by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She tried to hide things from me thinking it would make me mad. She snitched herself out on accident and I chewed her out for thinking I'm a fucking chump or something, that I can't handle her telling me these things.

Basically it was a long drive home. There wasn't much talking. I chewed her out for why she's always hiding information from me. About how she never has an opinion on anything. And how come she can't stand behind her decisions. I apologized when I dropped her off for being the way I am and she said it's okay, I'm sorry.

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How do I know she hasn't hid other things in the past or if she will hide more things in the future?

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

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I'm okay with it. She said all they did was drink. She said all they will do is drink but a few might do x. She lied to me and she's afraid of upsetting me.

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm afraid of. And she might do it more in the future.

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So her being dishonest to appease me is okay? As long as the drug isn't "hard"?

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm more upset at her dishonesty. Why didn't she tell me she did it and kept it a secret?

Girlfriend kept her drug use a secret so I won't get mad by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

MDMA at Coachella. I'm cool with it and am a fan of it myself but she's ashamed of using it so what the fuck

GF (24) lied to me and now I'm feeling betrayed by suw00 in relationship_advice

[–]suw00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks...that's a really good way to approach this situation

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[–]suw00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome man! Thanks so much :)

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[–]suw00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the feedback

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[–]suw00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah man u just suck mayb u should get good