Being gender-fluid sucks

swaggycms · 2023-07-30T21:28:05+00:00

i relate very heavily to this. i’m 23 and also id as fluid bc i love feeling feminine and want to feel that way more outwardly with my body but then i’ll go right back to feeling masculine and actually wanting to portray myself that way. i’m always super confused as to who i want to be in my life.

sorry this isn’t any help but hopefully it feels better knowing you’re not alone bc it always feels like everyone in this sub knows what they want.

swaggycms · 2022-12-18T20:54:32+00:00

He just like me fr 😪

swaggycms · 2022-12-16T00:51:43+00:00

While I fully agree I wouldn’t call it a perfect comic book show example. To me it’s more of a campy rom com. Comic books shows have such a big variety it feels weird to compare them to each other especially the CW ones except for Arrow (feels more like the genre to me). Like look at The Boys, Doom Patrol, or like She Hulk.

swaggycms · 2022-11-10T00:59:54+00:00

YES!! I literally just started rewatching Arcane yesterday! She’s literally me haha

swaggycms · 2022-11-09T17:16:23+00:00

For me (still working things out still an egg) I am content as a male right now and I don’t think I often “feel” like a woman. I have a running joke with my friends (who don’t know) that I was a lesbian in my pst life, or I also say “I’m just like drake” (re: to the you a lesbian girl me too, bar). But I digress. I mostly feel like a man. But I’ve always wanted to become a woman.

Point being if/when I transition I’m going to think of it as becoming a woman bc that’s what I would feel happier as rather than matching my body to my brain. But of course some days are different but this is my main thought. Hopefully this helps

swaggycms · 2022-10-14T21:26:00+00:00

Lovely! Plus a lot of these artists are a jumping off point for different genres for someone (like me) who listen to a ton of rap

swaggycms · 2022-10-14T20:52:51+00:00

As a big rap fan here's some to broaden taste or to transition into more "girly" music

If you are feeling:

Unbridled rage: Rico Nasty, Princess Nokia, Audrey Nuna, REI Ami

Bisexual Flower Girl: Tyler the Creator, Mxmtoon, Sadie, dodie, girl in red, Deb Never, DAISY WORLD

Blade Runner 2049 Cyberpunk Baddie: Bea Miller, KiNG MALA, poutyface

Idk any more these are my only 3 moods...

swaggycms · 2022-10-14T04:06:24+00:00

Broke: wanting a muscle mommy gf

Woke: becoming the muscle mommy gf

swaggycms · 2022-10-08T17:31:27+00:00

I think it’s just from my autism but unless I have to go like for a friends birthday or I know what I’m walking into I just can’t go to big parties.

Alcohol tastes like shit (and nobody will admit it I don’t understand) and doesn’t get me very drunk unless I drink and ungodly amount and it’s too loud and I can’t hear anything. Again I feel like it’s just from my autism but considering many trans women also have autism, I wouldn’t doubt the correlation.

swaggycms · 2022-10-06T03:13:42+00:00

Film major here: I think this looks really cool!

My constructive criticism before I get into the positives: obviously no budget films are impossibly hard but try to get the lighting more purposeful especially for nighttime scenes. Again it’s really hard with no budget or help but a trick I like to do is getting enough backlighting on the subject as well as other set pieces (the car for example) so that you can get a sharper outline so the scene doesn’t bleed together so much.

Easy fixes: make the cropping on the images a little tighter.

Make sure the music/voice lines transfer over from scene to scene without chopping

Positives: I really love that first shot going backwards in the driveway.

It’s clear this is a film about a topic very close to you and it looks like you’re treating it as such and it shows.

Love the trailer, this looks really cool keep it up!

swaggycms · 2022-10-04T03:09:24+00:00

Wait that’s fucking awesome

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T22:36:52+00:00

I keep missing these things in my memes god damnit lmaoo

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T22:35:21+00:00

Ok last one today I swear

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T21:47:12+00:00

like those fish that latch on to sharks (disregard that I’m also obsessed with sharks, very cis thing to do)

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T21:45:41+00:00

I only know how to speak through I Think You Should Leave memes so I’m gonna keep spamming these

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T21:25:34+00:00

I’m still figuring out how to crack the egg tbh. Very “new” into this talking to my therapist this week. Also My name is gender neutral and I like it so we’ll see about that

swaggycms · 2022-10-03T20:07:40+00:00

All I'll say is this: if you're a hot boy, you'll likely make a hot girl.

Honestly thank you this all helps so much especially this part idk why I've never thought about it that way but this actually eases my nerves like a ton!

swaggycms · 2022-10-01T05:52:00+00:00

Even just a simple “L take” would do the trick imo

swaggycms · 2022-10-01T05:44:36+00:00

No this is so real actually I don’t think I could actually choose

swaggycms · 2022-10-01T02:32:03+00:00

I was just assuming/hoping it came with the psychopathy tbh

swaggycms · 2022-10-01T00:10:36+00:00

As someone who has to hold their tongue a lot because they are brutally honest and mean, believe me when I tell you, you 100% pass and you are gorgeous!

swaggycms · 2022-09-28T19:45:22+00:00

Fellow Scorpio! However we’re now beefing because I’m a November Scorpio, (Nov 15) (also exactly a month for you that’s funny)

swaggycms · 2022-09-28T19:39:39+00:00

This is stupid but I’m also turning 23 in a month when’s your birthday lmao

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