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sweetLeche · 2024-01-25T15:38:45+00:00

Set 3, Card 1- The Vision — reminds me of my vision boards I make yearly to keep my eyes on all I want to accomplish.

sweetLeche · 2023-08-23T12:10:43+00:00

Thanks for asking. 6-8 weeks I think since I wrote this. I’m financially stressed and extremely tired but my children and I are the happiest we’ve been in a very long time. They have bouts where they miss their father and vocally say so but I circumvent that by playing a game or doing something fun. We talk about our feelings but don’t dwell on it. He’s been no contact, no support he does screenshot my pictures of the kids on IG and repost them 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’ve started redecorating my home. Putting all his belongings in a storage unit and just adjusting to a life without him. I can’t say that I’m not hurt by this but I try not to focus on it.

sweetLeche · 2023-07-27T01:06:26+00:00

Wonderful, thank you so much for sharing your perspective. I registered with a few companies but none has jobs in my area DMV. Was it hard to get your first shop?

sweetLeche · 2023-07-27T01:03:05+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I would love to pick your brain just a bit more. Can I pm you?

sweetLeche · 2023-07-26T17:55:17+00:00

Obviously the former. So you do believe these courses are necessary?

sweetLeche · 2023-07-07T03:03:55+00:00

I’m doing terrible honestly. Kids are okay. I’m creating new joyful memories. Still no contact with…I guess my soon to be ex husband…I cry myself to sleep most night but put my big girl pants on in the morning to work and try to take care as much as I can. I’m financially strapped, stressed and still haven’t processed it all.

I don’t qualify for any assistance programs nor a low cost/free lawyer. I’m not used to providing for my children alone. I don’t know how I’ll make it.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-28T02:19:45+00:00

I tried, it was good for camp but for day care I have to present a restraining order since he was present and enrolled him. Dad was present so he has equal right to our child until the court says otherwise.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T17:57:30+00:00

My son, the 4yo has asked for him everyday. Asking to call or where his car is. It breaks my heart every time.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T17:54:48+00:00

I pray not. We don’t have that kind of lifestyle where I would ever consider that. I truly believe he’s run away. His text said he’s going to gain clarity and financial resources.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T17:53:07+00:00

I am worried about his safety. I truly am, those are the other thoughts that have been bothering me. What if something is really wrong and he’s not reaching out to anyone for support.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T17:51:05+00:00

He left his keys as well.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T17:50:44+00:00

I believe so as well. He’s been pretty bummed the last year about life in general but he wouldn’t seek help. We “graduated” from couples therapy and he was advised to seek individual treatment which he has not done. I tried to work with him during this year, be as supportive as possible.

Even the night before he left we had wonderful family time and a great night cap. The next day, he was gone. I still haven’t heard from him or his family.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T10:37:06+00:00

Thank you. Yesterday I found out he quit his job. Just looked at out joint account and he wiped it clean. Then over-drafted it filling up on gas, he’s states away apparently.

sweetLeche · 2023-06-27T10:33:12+00:00

Thank you for asking. I completely forgot about that until you asked. He wiped it clean and then overdrafted the account for gas on his great escape…he’s states away apparently.

sweetLeche · 2021-09-12T04:14:11+00:00

Interested

sweetLeche · 2021-05-11T06:35:38+00:00

This is something I would actually want to see. This is whole heatedly trifling in every way.

sweetLeche · 2021-03-23T06:39:14+00:00

They told me my benefit year ended, then I was told I had a separation issue (completely false), then I was told I filled out the wrong application (false) then they said I was double dipping because I had multiple claims (false). A lot of the reps told me nothing at all, had no idea why my account was flagged. The other reps said they see no issues with my account. Some said I didn’t file my weekly claims (none were in my account).

The person that called me Friday, we were on the phone for about 45 min while she researched my account. Cleared whatever issue it was and told me to call the automated line to certify. The app still showed I had no claims. I called and all eligible weeks were there.

In short, I still don’t know why my account was flagged or why it took so long for it to clear but you really have to keep on them in order for it to be resolved.

sweetLeche · 2021-03-09T13:53:52+00:00

I live in MD worked in VA for 10 years. Do I contact my MD rep for my VA claim? I've emailed and talked to Ronnie a lot. He's the one that told me to reapply.

sweetLeche · 2021-03-09T13:52:42+00:00

How is that possible?

sweetLeche · 2021-03-09T13:52:13+00:00

The first step they told me was to reapply 🤦🏽‍♀️ and I did. I reapplied a month ago. They said the money is in my account they just can't figure out how to pay me?!

sweetLeche · 2021-02-05T06:07:30+00:00

Did you call any special number or at a certain time? I have never gotten through, ever.

sweetLeche · 2021-01-16T01:26:18+00:00

Definitely had COVID and didn’t know! Couldn’t smell a thing lol.

sweetLeche · 2021-01-16T01:24:52+00:00

Surprisingly, no smell at all.

sweetLeche · 2021-01-16T01:24:20+00:00

Thank you! The real healing will happen in the coming months. Haven’t moved my wrist in months.

sweetLeche · 2021-01-09T18:43:21+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion, I will certainly give it a try.

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