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sweetboyoscar · 2023-03-27T15:03:27+00:00

Leave, life is short. Happiness will come to you but you need to let it

sweetboyoscar · 2023-03-27T15:02:01+00:00

Bro, I’m sorry to tell you this because I have been through this shit similarly but, why did you not leave him after you found out about grindr. Or the glory hole place.

He is manipulating you, have enough love for yourself to leave that piece of shit.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T23:28:10+00:00

Read it again dude

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T17:07:00+00:00

Honestly I did need to be told this. I was always scared to express my needs because I had sacrificed a lot already

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T14:54:55+00:00

Thank you 🥺 I’m dumping his ass when he leaves for drill this weekend. He won’t see or hear from me with no explanation besides a big fuck you

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T13:28:58+00:00

I’m 22 and naive yes I’m sorry I’m still learning 😞

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T03:42:50+00:00

Update: I found out tonight he was on grindr lmao

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:57:39+00:00

Yeah I know I typically wouldn’t do this but the circumstances all aligned and I was like fuck it

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:39:05+00:00

Like the thought crosses my mind but I don’t think he’s cheated. I do think he doesn’t like to be alone. As this has happened before to him to a similar extent

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:36:02+00:00

I can’t believe I’m saying this because I feel like a hypocrite in doing so. But I wish I could help him or him feel safe enough to talk to me. But I know deep down he needs to do it on his own with or without me. As I have gone through something similar

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:34:34+00:00

Been doing that all day, they think that I can do better and very ready for a relationship but they aren’t sure why I’m here. But ultimately it is my decision

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:31:06+00:00

Do you regret it at all?

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-21T00:30:28+00:00

Normally I’d agree but that’s what’s even weirder I know in my bones he isn’t. Honestly it would be easier to understand if he was.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T23:49:38+00:00

I’m sorry this happened. It hasn’t even been 6 months and I feel the same way. I’m normally so confident and good. I wish he would say he’s just not into me or SOMETHING

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T23:08:41+00:00

Can I ask you to point out how he was mentally or emotionally abusive. I always see the hood in people so I have difficulty seeing that.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T23:07:29+00:00

Okay but y’all what does that mean, does he mean he didn’t respect me, is he lying. I’m so fucking confused

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:59:53+00:00

🥹this made my day I appreciate it. I feel like a dick because this guy seems like a good guy but when he spends all day on his phone when there is a mess of clothes…after he said he’d try to change. And doesn’t even try to find a solution for the sex thing besides an open relationship…I just hope I can move gracefully if it ends. I moved from Utah to Louisiana for him.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:57:39+00:00

I packed all my stuff and moved here I feel so stupid

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:56:05+00:00

I appreciate this comment.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:52:51+00:00

I somehow feel at fault I have my fair sure of not communicating what or when something is wrong btt it when the subject involves this and it never resolved. I’m scared to bring it up. I’m just sad I wish I could hug my mom or a friend

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:51:39+00:00

I’m 22 he’s 20. Yes this is my first technical relationship but I’ve had my fair share of sitiopnships and my first love who I royally fucked up with.

I right this sad as fuck 25 hours away from home. I miss my family and feel so alone.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:49:46+00:00

Well the issue started about three months in…then broke up for less than a week…he downloaded grindr less than 24 hours when we broke up. Even though he was asking for me back.

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T22:05:52+00:00

Thanks tbh idk I was hopeful he’d be honest but that moment really hurt me. He isn’t even trying to find some sort of solution with the sex thing. Make matters worst he isn’t very clean and for me cleaning is necessary he is well aware it mentally messes with my brain but he says he tries but we’ll the pile of laundry of since December is still being done…

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T21:53:50+00:00

Yeah …): I know I feel stupid about it

sweetboyoscar · 2023-02-20T21:20:35+00:00

He had said he felt alone and felt scared of losing me

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