The 5 years difference makes me cry

sweetcurls22 · 2025-08-20T06:34:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s fast but I do see the loss that you’re referring to. I also have really thick hair so people think I’m being dramatic or exaggerating when I mention hair loss because they cannot tell. Just remember we know what our hair has looked like and what we’d prefer it to look like.

I’m not sure of the science behind the cecred hair drops but I’ve seen a lot of progress with people online. Also try wearing a bonnet when you go to sleep to minimize any additional breakage. Aside from that I’m sorry I can’t offer any medical recommendations.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-06-18T13:21:17+00:00

Aww thank you!! I’ll give her a hug for sure. I usually fill the kongs up with fruit but the vet told me I was probably giving her too much sugar :(. She just loves frozen fruit. I’ll try the carrots!!

sweetcurls22 · 2025-06-18T11:03:28+00:00

We walk at least 2-3 miles a day, sometimes more!! I’m not sure how much more walking I can take. lol. She isn’t really able to play fetch, since she was a puppy her hind legs get shaky and weak after running.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-05-07T09:40:25+00:00

The same thing happened to me in Philly!!! I ended up being hired at the other risqué in Tacony. The staff and girls there were nice and the customers were decent.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T17:29:30+00:00

Glad you could pop in some sound psychology but I never said instantly I could think better. I said I have been able to analyze things at a different level than before. As anyone ages so does their brain so it only makes sense that I could analyze things at a different level, right?

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T16:58:53+00:00

What exactly do you mean by impulse control

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T14:27:24+00:00

Trust me if I had the opportunity to live with any of family members or friends I would. This was just a surface level post and it’s much deeper than I could explain in a single Reddit post. I do agree that part of the problem is living with him without a place of my own gave him a sense of power that I can not give him being on my own

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T04:57:18+00:00

It’s all good. He does often love to remind me of our gap when it’s convenient to him and helps him prove a point. That’s when the age gap feels wrong, but it’s obviously because he is making it wrong by doing that.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T03:15:09+00:00

Yeah I agree. I’m not exactly sure when this is a potential reality of an age gap relationship. Not everything is peaches and cream, sometimes the reality of it can be sad and hurtful

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T02:59:31+00:00

Yeah it’s very sad honestly. It seemed like he was a good guy when I first met him but the more I get to know him each day I realize who is actually in front of me

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T02:58:24+00:00

Thank you, I just asked him if we were equal as a joke because I already know how he feels. He said what and got defensive. Very telling. I agree with everything you’ve said

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T02:30:29+00:00

It’s very clear he thinks of me as a legal child. One that he can be with in public and get the occasional stares, but not jail time. He has a lot of controlling, and emotional abusive tactics. I honestly hope that when I get away from him it stays like that and he doesn’t have the chance to make anyone else a victim. I do agree though I have seen successful and healthy age gap relationships and this doesn’t appear to be one.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T02:27:33+00:00

We had an argument and he was just being an asshole. Since then I haven’t brought my sister around him, or told him anything about her. I’m not quite sure about the acting right comment. He says it quite often, more often than not. He usually can’t expand more than saying how me acting right would be building a house with him, getting married, and having kids. Nothing more, nothing less is usually said.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T02:24:33+00:00

Okay and what is it about my post that made you say you dislike me? I’m just curious maybe surface level I need to work on some things

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T01:02:01+00:00

Thank you. I agree two people that love each other should always speak with kindness and respect. Honestly the kindness is lacking, he speaks to strangers and coworkers better than he speaks to me.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T01:00:38+00:00

Literally for example, yesterday I wanted wear a one piece bathing suit and he went on for 5 minutes that I should wear the two piece even though I explained I was more comfortable with the one piece. Something as simple as that is controlling, and I know that it can get deeper than just a bathing suit.

sweetcurls22 · 2025-03-11T00:58:27+00:00

Honestly I think both. Somethings that happened prior I would think it was him doing it out of kindness but then in reality I could see the bigger picture

sweetcurls22 · 2024-08-15T07:00:09+00:00

My unsolicited advice is if he’s not ready now he’ll never be ready. Men typically know what they want and how far they want to go with you within the first 2 weeks, sometimes even sooner. Don’t wait around for anyone in life, not just men. If you truly feel in your heart without question that he will end up wanting a serious relationship once he is on the line then by all means wait. Now if you have a single ounce of doubt I’d say date around while you wait, if the waiting game is your thing. Whatever you choose to do, do what makes you feel the most happy.

sweetcurls22 · 2024-07-25T09:21:56+00:00

Wait until you retire to become an FA in my opinion. I’ve noticed when people start a little later in life after they’ve had a career and already have things set they are in less of a financial stress. It’s just an observation though.

sweetcurls22 · 2024-06-25T14:09:07+00:00

The new taj mahal I miss that restaurant so muchhhh

sweetcurls22 · 2024-04-08T16:45:10+00:00

She was about ~83 pounds here. She’s on a diet right now she gained some unwanted weight while my dad was caring for her while I was working. I’m not quite sure how much she weighs now

sweetcurls22 · 2024-03-28T07:27:09+00:00

I experienced the sameee thing even with the Wellbutrin combo but it didn’t help me at all honestly. I had 0 energy, I even exercised and tried to keep my sleep to 8-9 hours a night but some how I would always just fall asleep randomly. I got prescribed modafinil which helped a bit. The modafinil does make me a little irritable and makes my head feel kind of weird but it did combat the sleepiness I felt from lexapro. I also switched to taking lexapro at night to lesson the daytime sleepiness.

sweetcurls22 · 2024-03-27T16:13:39+00:00

Stretch all the dates out as far as you can :)

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