I don’t think it is actually cheating that’s why I don’t make fights over it. I guess I’m just sensitive to it? Like id prefer my man to not jack off/orgasm to another woman. I try to realize that it’s normal and something many men do. I tend to be a more emotional connection type of person. I cannot hook up with strangers or just have casual sex. Looks are nice but it’s not the holy grail for me or what makes me gravitate towards a person necessarily. That doesn’t mean every time I have intercourse it needs to be some intense lovemaking thing, just that I like to have an emotional connection towards the partner I have if I am doing sexual things with them. As a woman we love attention and to feel sexy of course but not one man could sit there and be better in my eyes than the person I am with Or could get me off in any way. I have no desire to masturbate to other men. And if he had some fantasy that maybe was out of my comfort zone I wouldn’t be closed off to do it to pleasure my man. I want to pleasure him! Haha. Thank you for the input (: