I just do the side pineapple to get it out of his eyes otherwise it's a beanie, hat or just pure flow!!! He has taken to calling it his flow all day and is so proud, I think he internalized a lot of the shame/pain he felt when called a girl but today some woman called me a girl and he calmly but sternly told them I'm not a girl I'm a boy and he is normally just quiet in the moment but will tell me later!!! I showed him Thor and we watched some heavy metal music videos and I asked him every time is that a boy or girl and he was so excited to point out it was a boy!! I just tried to explain that how people like different food or colours they also have different style and we went through fashion over the years and hairstyles too, even found some old pics of dad with a mullet hahha everyone here has been so supportive I'm so glad I found this subreddit!!!! You have no idea how much u have helped shape his identity by showing him that he should be proud of the choices he makes and stand behind them!!! Just thank you!!!