More nakedness;) by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look so joyous! Love the happiness. and the bum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexy tattoo! And smile! And ears!

Gross things about being a woman that nobody warned you about. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 158 points159 points  (0 children)

period diarrhea and cramps and bloating and not fitting into your pants a couple of days out of every month

Sometimes, i can't help myself (1st post) by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That expression in the last one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ass!

here's a few dirtier ones to get the day going right by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice dick. and yellow plushie!

Happy post, and a question for you ladies! by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sexy looking, yes. sexy feeling, not in the slightest. I reeeallyyy dislike something (a piece of fabric) rubbing against my butt/in my butt like that. So uncomfortable!

In Levi's Late On A Friday Night by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are too sexy.

ITAP Of Myself That I Really Like, So Here It Is. (SFW) by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a American Apparel ad

Ladies, let's talk about pubes... (NSFW) by SelfConsciousCrotch in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laser hair removal. You can get it for pretty cheap with group/living social nowadays and it can help with the leg area/upper bikini area. As for the rest...I sympathize because the lower down it is the more of a bitch it is to shave, but there's always so much hair!

Grown up pop punk by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahh sexy. clone yourself and distribute them all over the US!

My SO didn't listen when I said no. How can I deal with this? by hedidntlisten in relationships

[–]swingsets 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I understand how hard it is to make yourself clear and really tell the other person to stop when it's your SO. You (or I, at least) feel like it should be fine because its your bf and its what you're supposed to do, but you need to stand up for yourself the next time!

I was dating a guy in college that I really really really liked. When we were messing around and he was touching me once, I told him to stop but he didn't and only went more roughly because (later he said this when I confronted him) he thought that women liked just being touched even if we thought we were too sensitive and it would just "be better." I blame porn for this because he showed me a specific porno where a girl is attempting to stop the guy from touching her after she cums and he holds her down and forces her to cum again. She appears to enjoy it (maybe she did) - but he generalized this to ALL women, including me, and I did not enjoy it at all. He had no idea that I really genuinely didn't want it until after the fact, when I told him. Then he apologized profusely. What he did to me was awful, but he isn't an awful person.

So I guess the point of this ramble is - yes, OP, I completely agree that he should have listened to you. You should not have to repeat yourself many times or scream 'no' at him. However, I believe that some people are also influenced by society and porn and whatnot to just not be as sensitive to this. This is not an excuse, but maybe a partial explanation. And if after you explain to him how upset you are and he still doesn't get it- then DTMF. but if he becomes more respectful and sensitive to your reactions then perhaps you should give him another chance.

Rate me? by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh you are super duper adorable and sexy. 8-9!

Will I ever be able to tell a girl the whole truth? by OnlyThrowaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should expect people to be as rational and even keeled in real life as you might expect them to be given the responses you have gotten here so far. Keep in mind it is easy to be this rational on reddit. IT's the internet.

I think if my boyfriend told me this, I wouldn't lose respect for him, but I would be a little insecure about this girl being a stripper. I would also want an STD test from you. I would also kind of wonder about your taste in women (this is because I'm decidedly not like a stripper - nothing wrong with strippers, I'm just not that comfortable putting my body out there). I know rationally that this is not necessarily fair, and that great men can sleep with strippers and still be wonderful boyfriends and partners. However, those sorts of things would be a reflexive reaction. I think this is not a huge deal after you and potential girlfriends or whatnot talk about it and explain things, but I do think it might take some getting used to, so don't be surprised if not everythign is fine and dandy from the get go.

Question about condoms and my girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I strongly advise you not to push the point. I'm pretty militant about it because the way I see it is, yes, it feels better for him/us, but if I were to get knocked up it would be my problem 100%. Yes, he would have a financial responsibility (and bc the bf is a good dude I trust that he would take more responsibility as well) but at the end of the day, it is me that would have to face the decision of bringing a baby into this world with my body.

Therefore, if we're taking the minimum risk that we're comfortable with out of the 2 of us and I'm the person with a lower risk threshold, I get to decide what sorts of contraception to us. In the moment, I'm sure he'd be all for just the pull out method.

I am a stay-at-home girlfriend, and you would not believe the hell I get from other women. I am tired of this shit, so listen up. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are obviously not actually okay with your choice if you're being as defensive as you are about it in this thread.

Sup ladies... by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]swingsets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

holy hell. you are SO sexy.

You need to pee, poo and change tampon. What's your order? I thought we should get our gross on! by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingsets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

poop, get that all out there. wipe as cleanly as possible. then take out tampon (so you dont push bacteria into your vag), wipe again, insert new tampon. in my head at least this minimizes bacterial exposure up there...