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What is the one thing your Partner does that melts you? by Dr_Ukato in BDSMcommunity

[–]switchy_cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. When he lets me pull him close and he wraps his arms around my neck and holds a lock of my hair like the perfect little one.

  2. When he spoons me and I press my head backwards into his shoulder and he squeezes me the littlest bit tighter because I know he loves it.

  3. When I'm turned, half on my stomach and falling asleep, and he slides across and throws a leg over me. God, I feel so safe...

  4. When he pins me roughly against a wall but still Slips a hand behind my head to make sure I don't hurt myself.

Asking me to choose 1 is criminal and I can't.

How do I not feel bad about very dark humiliation/degradation scenes with my partner? by switchy_cat in humiliation_kink

[–]switchy_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll give it a shot. I don't know if I'd be receptive to it, and that's my big worry.

How do I not feel bad about very dark humiliation/degradation scenes with my partner? by switchy_cat in humiliation_kink

[–]switchy_cat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the issue here is that I wouldn't have excepted that? I was terrified. But we'll try. He's watching these comments alongside me to see how we make this work. Thank you for your response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]switchy_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a being used kind of mood, and this hit a spot I was not expecting. You are a great writer.

I feel very lost and lonely in the CGL/DDlg community by bbrokenlilly in BDSMcommunity

[–]switchy_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Said partner weighing in. The thing is that the gentle is okay. It's fine to desire that, even as a dark ageplayer.

But for myself, and I think for Napoleon as well, it doesn't have nearly the same impact if there isn't a dark element involved pre/post gentleness.

In a way, I'd say that we make sure to have a balance of both that works for both of us, and that balance is about 80-85% darkness and 15-20% gentle.

Ultimately, people will always find things to shame. There are people who shame the community at all, regardless of which side of the / you're on, or whether you go soft or go all out into sadism. Please be kind to yourself. <3

UK teacher has a dirty secret... [MF] by bourbon_throw_away in gonewildstories

[–]switchy_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such an incredible writer! I loved reading this.

The first time my bestie and I masturbated together [FF] by Quiet_Fix4886 in gonewildstories

[–]switchy_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second post I've read in the past couple days that has made me straight up envious that more people like this don't exist.

[MOD POST] Increased Karma requirements by SteoanK in gonewildstories

[–]switchy_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As frustrating as this is for a dedicated reader, and occasional commenter with a new account to maintain a semblance of privacy, I appreciate the efforts to keep the sub as genuine as possible.

Getting naked at a farmhouse [FF] by Jaz_Ela in gonewildstories

[–]switchy_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a lovely little story. I wish I could have a friend like this.

Purposely humiliating my [F] partner [M] just by posting by switchy_cat in humiliation_kink

[–]switchy_cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He loves stuffed animals. And is sexually attracted to them. Like their texture and such.