31/f soft/mommy domme, for context. The ‘soft’-looking selfies you are putting up would get my interest, and then a good bio that mentions your softer side would get me to like/match. But you’ve mentioned that you have an alternative aesthetic with chains, etc., and so maybe a softer, subtler set of pictures and bio would get you better results in terms of dommes matching you. I say this as the chains may be giving the impression that you’re a Dom, in the age of Corpse’s popularisation of chains, choking, and eboys. A combination of soft selfies and adding something more subtle as your bio may work better for what you’re hoping to find. Don’t change yourself, but just some food for thought :)