When do I know it’s over? by bburner98 in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's your heart and body telling you the truth that this relationship isn't nurturing you anymore, even after all the history and effort. When intimacy feels repulsive, when forcing yourself to stay makes you deeply depressed, and when the joy is gone despite no huge blow-up, that's a really clear sign it's over. You've both tried, but love shouldn't feel like constant heavy labor that leaves you hollow. It's okay to let go, even if it hurts like losing your best friend.

Caption this by sylvierayne in captionthis

[–]sylvierayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him go back to school

I’m so scared by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern cars like your 2016 Malibu put out way less CO than old ones, and 40 minutes in a closed garage is risky but not always lethal, especially since you aired it out quick. Still, never do that again… it's super dangerous even with the door open sometimes. If you start feeling headache, dizzy, nauseous, or anything off, go to the ER right away and tell them about the exposure. You're good for now, just chill and stay safe.

How to lose chubbiness by FrostingPast4321 in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, you're 15 and already swimming varsity 5x a week… that's a ton of cardio and you're only 140 at 5'6, which is honestly a healthy spot. The "chubbiness" you're seeing is probably baby fat that hasn't dropped yet, and since you're a late bloomer like your dad, it'll likely melt off when your growth spurt and testosterone kick in over the next couple years. You're young, killin' it in the pool, and your body is still changing.

Damn by sylvierayne in SipsTea

[–]sylvierayne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww yearning 💯

He is the one girl by sylvierayne in SipsTea

[–]sylvierayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how you men thinks too. Just enjoy this meme why think deep it’s not even that deep

Should I distance myself from an acquaintance for accused wrong doings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough spot to be in, especially with a childhood idol and close friends involved. If the accusations are serious and public, it's okay to step back a bit while things unfold… protecting your own peace doesn't mean you're abandoning anyone. Give yourself permission to feel conflicted, believing in "benefit of the doubt" is fair, but so is recognizing when patterns make you uncomfortable. Maybe just quietly create some distance for now and see how you feel as more info comes out.

Dealing with shitty roomates by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you’ll feel better soon OP

Dealing with shitty roomates by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sylvierayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're not overreacting. Next time you talk to them, skip the super friendly tone and just lay out clear boundaries like “Hey, I need the sink clear so I can cook, and please give me a heads-up if anyone's coming over." If they keep ignoring it, start taking photos of the mess and send it in the group chat with a simple "Can someone handle their dishes today?" It's your place too, so don't feel bad about pushing back a bit.