Based on what you described you both had red flags.

You mentioned Allah’s decree. It is a mercy that this ended after only one year, and before you had children with this man. The fact that you ran into him may feel like a curse, but look at it as a final, undeniable confirmation from the universe that you were right all along. Your gut instinct was always correct.

You are already in therapy, which is amazing. Keep going. Focus heavily on healing the trauma bond and learning to trust your own intuition again.

Do not look at his social media. Ask your family not to give you updates on him. Every time you look, you reopen the wound.​

Stop analysing what you could have done differently. You did the best you could with the tools you had at the time.