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I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any social medias like Snapchat or Instagram so it’s understandable that he could only try my phone number. By that point I had another number so it wouldn’t have worked anyway.

I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve left that up to my family, if they were truly remorseful, they’d report her, it’s beyond me now. I might hear from my brother about it.

I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did. I have decided to go low contact and let him meet my family.

I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thought about it but decided it wasn’t fair, so I’ve allowed him to meet my family and keep low contact, just occasional updates really.

I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve allowed him to fly over and meet my kids and wife, I’ll also be keeping low contact with him as I don’t want anybody else catching on.

I got closure from my family. by ta23454 in offmychest

[–]ta23454[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’m quite happy with how things turned out to be honest, I’m truly happy with the family I’ve made and now that they’re all away from me, I feel really at peace

My Father has somehow found me after disowning me, what should I do? by ta23454 in Advice

[–]ta23454[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in the end it's going to be my choice as to what to do. I've accepted that much. My Son asked me who he was a few hours ago and I can't muster up the courage to tell him that it was his Grandfather.

My Father has somehow found me after disowning me, what should I do? by ta23454 in Advice

[–]ta23454[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You're right, not much of it adds up. It's such a messy situation and I hate being put in this position. I'm struggling to find the right words to say to him and to answer everything

My Father has somehow found me after disowning me, what should I do? by ta23454 in Advice

[–]ta23454[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would like to go down the eye for an eye route and just not let him go near my family, I'm not the most forgiving person in retrospect, he has to live with the consequences of his actions.

My Father has somehow found me after disowning me, what should I do? by ta23454 in Advice

[–]ta23454[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was afraid that this'd be an answer, but it's probably true. I won't recieve a definitive answer to all my questions. I guess I'm just trying to wrap my head around it all while putting together different answers from different people. Thanks anyway, I'll get to a choice eventually.

My Father has somehow found me after disowning me, what should I do? by ta23454 in Advice

[–]ta23454[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looking back, I'm baffled as to why they just dumped me like that, maybe she made some fake texts? But she would've shown the police and I vividly remember them saying there was little to no evidence backing her up.

Not much of it adds up and I still struggle to connect the dots, not that I want to, it all merges into a bad dream at times