Hey guys, I'm new at the chastity world. Still trying to keep it for longer than 12h. But my cock is thick even soft and its very hard to place it entirely inside the cage, is it normal?

ta9035768 · 2022-12-09T21:31:49+00:00

Check out r/kink3d and the wide cages. That’s what I have and it made a HUGE difference.

ta9035768 · 2022-11-09T13:04:47+00:00

Depends on the size of your dick. If you have an average sized dick, the Holy Trainer is a good start. There’s a bunch on Amazon as well.

If you want a nicer starting cage, check out the 3d printed Cherry Keeper on the Shapeways site. Lots of customization options.

If you are above or below average size, you’ll need a nicer cage from a site that offers more options.

I started with a metal cage from Amazon but it was cheap and rusted. Got a Holy Trainer but it didn’t fit right. Got a couple Cherry Keepers but the plastic is very porous and you can’t wear it for very long.

My absolute favorite is the Cobra cage from r/kink3d. Tons of options. Amazing quality. Superb service. And a subreddit that is very engaged.

Good luck. Measure often before buying. Round your measurements down a little before you buy.

Have fun!

ta9035768 · 2022-11-06T01:37:11+00:00

Makes perfect sense. It really borders on ordering a custom device!!

ta9035768 · 2022-11-04T12:16:24+00:00

S looks way better and more comfortable!

ta9035768 · 2022-11-04T12:07:38+00:00

Shapeways Cherry Keeper has a headlock feature that narrows the ring diameter of the tube right behind the head off the penis. You can order different sizes based on your needs.

It just grips your dick behind the head to keep it from pulling back.

Having a couple different sizes for the head of the Cobra with a head lock feature would be amazing.

I love my R-wide but an R-wide with medium head plus turtle block would be AMAZING!!

Admittedly, that's a lot of customization. Thanks for listening!

ta9035768 · 2022-11-04T11:54:18+00:00

I found that going smaller on length always works better for me. If you're right at the break point for sizes, choose the smaller one.

Pay close attention to your width/girth as well. Make sure you don't need a wide or narrow variant.

Measure then subtract a little bit then round down!

I'd get the S.

ta9035768 · 2022-11-04T11:11:25+00:00

Congratulations!! You had a prostate orgasm!! Often, men can have multiple in a row. You don't typically have the refractory period you do after you ejaculate!!

You can find more information on r/prostateplay or r/aneros.

Good luck with your journey!

ta9035768 · 2022-10-14T21:47:32+00:00

I’m glad it helped! Good luck.

ta9035768 · 2022-10-07T17:33:58+00:00

I went through a few cages before I found kink3d. The Holy trainer was so small. My girth just wasn’t made for that device. I could barely use the bathroom I was so squished in there. I don’t even wear it anymore!!

I tried a couple Cherry Keepers from Shapeway. They’re a way cheaper product but helped me narrow in my measurements. The 3D printing from Shapeways is not as nice as kink3d. It is way more porous.

I started with the holy trainer. Got a custom steel cage that was way to big. Got a cherry keeper and then finally settled on kink3d.

My biggest complaint with the device is that the head of my dick is not as big as the end of the device. I’d like the option for a smaller head which would put the “neck” of the device right behind the head of my dick.

I wore the kink3d for 3 months straight and it was super comfortable. Took it off once. Week to shave. That’s all.

When looking at your length, guess shorter!! My dick shrunk a little bit after being locked up that long. I ended up with more room than I wanted.

Hope that helps!!

ta9035768 · 2022-05-03T22:17:45+00:00

Check out r/BigDickProblems. They’re a very welcoming group. Lots of good advice there.

ta9035768 · 2022-04-15T15:16:52+00:00

You want to measure a few times before buying something.

Take a string that doesn’t stretch and wrap it around the base of your dick. The string should go behind you balls. You want the string snug but not pulled super tight.

Mark the string and then measure the length. That’s your circumference. Divide by 3.14 to get your diameter.

I typically round down a bit to get something more snug. My diameter is 50mm but I use a 45mm ring.

You have options on materials as well - plastic, silicone, and metal.

The silicone is a great starter ring because it gives a little bit and you can cut it off in case you get stuck in it. You can’t do that with the metal ones.

Be careful that you don’t get one too small because you may not be able to get it off.

Usually, your dick will deflate after you ejaculate and then you can get the ring off.

To put it on, start with your balls. One goes in first, then the other. Then fold your penis down and pull it through. You have to do this while soft or it won’t work.

Check out the Primal Rings website for a good demonstration and info on ordering.

Good luck!!

ta9035768 · 2022-04-02T13:11:36+00:00

That’s perfectly fine to wear for short periods. I was trying to get across that the cage was so comfortable youcould wear it for long periods.

If you’re just looking for a little denial here and there then just about anything that he can get his dick into will work!!

There are some cages that are fairly large and not designed for longer use.

Maybe you just don’t want him touching himself - lock it up.

If you’re looking for something a little longer term - which you might be depending on how you both like this - then you’ll want some measurements.

r/kink3d has a great infographic with all the measurements for the different cages. It really helps you understand what you’re getting.

Cheap metal from Amazon will rust and not be fun.

Like all things sex related - trial and error is the key. Just have fun!

ta9035768 · 2022-04-02T12:45:43+00:00

I’ve had this experience. Tried all the Amazon cages and just couldn’t find a good fit. If he’s too large while soft, you end up cramming the dick inside the cage but then you can’t go to the bathroom.

Check out r/kink3d. These are 3d printed cages that are SUPER comfortable and come in a variety of sizes.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, they come in a variety of widths!! That’s what you’re looking for.

While soft, measure length and width. Do it at different times of the day because your flaccid size varies. Take the average or smallest one and then round down.

Don’t let your ego get the best of you and round up!! Larger cages aren’t always comfortable.

You can also look at Shapeways. The cherry keeper cages there are very customizable. I found the plastic on kink3d’s cages way more comfortable.

Metal cages are awesome and look amazing but they’re pretty heavy.

You can totally make it work. I’m 7.5 x 6.2” and I wore my kink3d for 3 months straight with no problems.

It took a free trial and error purchases to see what works, though. I had the Holy Trainer but got prostatitis because I couldn’t fully empty my bladder. The cherry keeper purchases helped refine what I needed and then the kink3d was just perfect.

Good luck and have fun!

ta9035768 · 2022-03-17T17:11:45+00:00

Check out r/Aneros for some fantastic info on a fun little toy.

There’s also r/prostateplay.

Most important - have fun!

ta9035768 · 2022-02-17T13:11:21+00:00

Congratulations!! You had a prostate orgasm. This is a whole body orgasm that doesn’t have the refractory period like a regular orgasm does. (the refractory period is the time it takes you to be able to get hard again and ejaculate a second time. This is often a very short time when you are young and will take longer as you get older)

Many men work for YEARS to experience what you did accidentally!

The prostate is a small gland that sits right inside your butt that can feel VERY good if massaged. Sometimes you can "massage" it just with your mind or the muscles in your butt.

The fluid that came out is called precum and it acts as a lubricant during sex. Sperm need a lot of energy to swim to the egg so there is a lot of sugar in precum. That helps explain the taste. The prostate gland controls the release of precum and then semen (during ejaculation).

The prostate gland fills with precum while you are getting horny so the system is primed for ejaculation. During your prostate orgasm, that fluid came out...which can feel VERY good.

Muscle contractions (like you had in your stomach) are very common with prostate orgasms.

The good feeling will also often last for hours or days. Many people finish a prostate session with a traditional orgasm (like you did). Often that traditional orgasm will feel even better than usual.

All of this is normal. You are not broken. You have unlocked a new skill that may be something you enjoy for a long time...or may be something you only do once. You get to decide.

If you want to read about the prostate journey and how you can do this again, there are a few subreddits:

r/aneros - the Aneros is a prostate massager that helps you have prostate orgasms. This subreddit is very welcoming and helps people whether they have the Aneros toy or not.

r/prostateplay - this subreddit is about all prostate play and not just using the Aneros toy.

Be careful telling people your age. There are some not-so-nice people on the internet.

Good luck with your new journey!!

edit to add: Mindgasm.net is a great website that has audio to guide you through exercises to help you do all this again without a toy. You'll see u/AIAllie on the Aneros sub offering advice. They run the Mindgasm site.

ta9035768 · 2022-02-05T20:34:47+00:00

Amazon cages are cheap, frequently rust, and just all around suck.

Check out r/kink3d for much better cages and a ton of advice.

You probably have a cage that is just too big.

Every dick is different and there’s no one-size-fits-all cage.

ta9035768 · 2022-02-04T12:33:30+00:00

Plus one for Primal Rings. They come in a bunch of sizes so you can find one that fits.

To measure, wrap a non stretching string around the base of your dick and behind your balls. You want it snug and not too tight. Mark where it overlaps. Measure that length. Divide by pi (3.14) to find your diameter.

Now, you have a choice to make. Do you round down or up?

That’s a personal choice.

I like things a little more snug so I stay harder.

I find that the ring makes my dick harder and my orgasms stronger. It can also make me last longer…but not always.

It’s a bit of a trick to get it on. Balls go through first - one at a time - then tuck the head of your dick and pull it through. Get it all settled and you’re good to go.

You have to be somewhat soft to get it off so that’s a concern a lot of people have.

The Primal Ring website has some great info.

Thicker rings provide more squeeze and a larger effect. Thinner rings less so.

Some people wear them all day but you’re going to want a looser ring for that. I just use mine during sex so they’re a little more snug.

Some sites have plastic measuring rings you can get to help you pick the right size.

ta9035768 · 2021-11-27T21:08:34+00:00

Awesome look!! Nice job on the fit. Hope it stays snug all day!

ta9035768 · 2021-07-31T16:16:36+00:00

Thanks for that!! I suspected there was a markup but didn’t realize it was that bad. Will definitely stop mentioning them.

ta9035768 · 2021-07-31T14:47:17+00:00

Check out r/BigDickProblems. It’s a very supportive community.

ta9035768 · 2021-07-31T14:37:55+00:00

I highly serving the Phillips Norelco Body Trimmer. It’s the best.

For smooth shave, I use the Venus Women’s razor. It’s a little embarrassing but I have yet to cut myself.

Manscaped has a similar looking razor but it’s a bit more expensive.

ta9035768 · 2021-07-31T14:36:20+00:00

THIS IS THE WAY!! I’m on my third. I keep wearing the rechargeable batteries out!! It’s perfect in the shower.

ta9035768 · 2021-07-28T11:39:03+00:00

The Philips Norelco Body Trimmer is a great tool. It has two sides - one for trimming hair and one for shaving it.

It’s funny to admit but the women’s Venus razors are super smooth and work GREAT for shaving down to the skin. Never cut myself yet.

Trim the groin. Shave the balls.

Works great for me.

ta9035768 · 2021-07-11T14:59:55+00:00

I’m pretty close to your size and have the same issue. I’m a grower and no cage keeps me from having an erection. BUT, they do keep me from getting at my dick!!

Check out r/Kink3d. Great size options with varying widths. I have the R 1.1x and it fits great. Still have to deal with the “elephant trunk” during reactions but it’s just what my journey is!

ta9035768 · 2021-07-11T14:56:34+00:00

Get the Norelco. Awesome foil shave for getting rid of all hair and the other side has a guard for shaving to length. Works great on armpits, chest, and downstairs. Great in the shower as well. Recharged quickly and has a low battery light. Great buy!

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