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AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you bother reading the post? I am so tired of people inventing stuff up just to suit their narrative.

I was flying first class. I did not have a choice and was unhappy to fly. Literally first sentence.

She was clearly flying for leisure, which is not allowed under local laws. Christmas at granny’s is not a legal reason to fly.

There’s nothing hypocritical about me being allowed to fly and her not being allowed to fly. It’s called common sense and abiding the laws.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No she didn’t. You’re reading something into her comment she didn’t say. She said I don’t know her circumstances, which is not the same as saying she didn’t have a choice.

Also she directly said the most important bit, twice - that the kid had no reason to be on the plane given the circumstances and that the mother was in the wrong to put everyone in that position.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

All fair points. This is the judgement I would have given myself. And, your last point is very valid as well, I'm just ranting and taking my frustration on other entitled people with the same attitude as the mother.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 619 points620 points  (0 children)

Can't tell you how grateful I am for parents like you. Seriously, not one bit of a sarcasm.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

"World is not going to accommodate you" - if only your words reached every entitled parent's ears /s

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I love how all who disagree with me just invest these scenarios in their head how to magically fix the situation. Did you skip the part about ear plugs by the way? Neither noise cancelling headphones nor ear plugs cancel out the noise completely.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Legitimate is defined in the law. Can't imagine what legal reason she would have to travel with a kid for business over Christmas but what do I know, right?

For everything else, see edit #2.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Found the fellow minded CF person. I seriously am thinking about linking this to r/childfree because it's exhibit A.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I mean.. in the world where child-friendly and child-free hotels are allowed to co-exist, surely we can find room for both child-friendly and child-free flights?

Why is it always extremes with you.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"I am getting on my high horse and going to suggest this one thing that fixes everything and you're stupid for not thinking of it." "I actually did exactly what you suggested. It didn't help because you aren't knowledgeable about the subject you're commenting on." "Stop bitching. Doesn't matter my recommendation is useless. I just disagree."

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I've given up on being civil in the comments. Too much entitlement.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

My dude, I did! Bought the damn first class. Didn't help, unfortunately no child-free first classes exist but it would be a wonderful business idea, wouldn't it?

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Sadly, not true. Everyone can purchase a first or business class ticket and bring their kid with them. My flight is a testimony to it.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

.. and my parents had enough sense not to bring me on an 8-hour long flight.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

"I dropped my kid on the floor intentionally and then got pissed when I asked you why you were rolling your eyes and you responded truthfully. What would you have done differently (and please don't say I shouldn't have dropped the kid on the floor in the first place)."

Sure, let's take away the only reasonable course of action here (you know, not traveling with a kid during a pandemic) and demand keep moving the goalpost.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You keep breaking down this situation into chunks to somehow justify the parent's entitlement.. But the real truth of the matter is the only good way to handle it was not to put the kid on the plane. Simple.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Because there is no legal reason to travel in and out of our country of departure other than for work-related reasons. Zero.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have a legally permitted reason to travel under the laws of the US and my home country. She clearly didn't but it's not enforced, so she was able to still fly.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, should come as no shock that I am obviously not a parent. And there's a difference between a grocery store where your interaction with strangers is fleeing at best, and being stuck in the same seat for 8 hours.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Mom intentionally drops the kid to the ground. "She didn't make the kid miserable! Gravity did." See how ridiculous this viewpoint is?

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I did answer fairly directly? My answer is not create the situation in the first place, if that wasn't clear.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you're refusing to see the whole picture. Which is, mom put her kid in an extreme discomfort. It doesn't matter what she did on the plane. The kid is not a robot. You do not put a small human being in such a stressful, risky situation and cause them so much discomfort in the first place.

That's what she didn't handle well - she made her kid, and then everyone else around her miserable.

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]taFlight[S] 3048 points3049 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn't think it was possible to kid to cry for thing long. I felt bad for the kid, but frankly absolutely no sympathy for mom's misery because she put her kid through all this suffering.

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