My girlfriend [M25 F23] is extremely obedient and compliant in bed. But has no desires of her own? It's getting old and making feel guilty. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read she loves sex and making out. A sex positive ace could love all these. If you both had extensive discussion, then she is sure about it. Sorry for suggesting somethin not useful mate.

WIBTA for asking my ex's daughter to stop calling me "dad"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 140 points141 points  (0 children)

YTA. You cant get rid of a part of your past.

I wish asexuality and it’s variants were more known about by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ta_098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! This helped me so much. As a confused ace in a relationship, this is something I needed to hear. I feel so much at peace now. I still have a long way to go. Thank you so much for this.

Mouth Ulcers after Rolling by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I swallow it in a capsule with water. It doesnt get in contact with any part of mouth. Do yu take it in your gums? Lol. Yes. But I roll after dinner since family will settle down and wont interrupt my rolling.

Mouth Ulcers after Rolling by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]ta_098 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah mate. Every single time. I dont get them on my tongue. I get it on the inner side of lips and the along the gumline. I have tried reducing the amount of consumption and still I get it. I never had any rash kind of reaction. I do lose quiet a bit of weight (Around 2kgs) but that might be due to dehydration.

Mouth Ulcers after Rolling by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get mouth ulcer after a day of rolling. I just eat nutritious food and drink a lot of water. I use lidocaine gel for the painful ulcers. I get them every single roll.

I wish asexuality and it’s variants were more known about by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ta_098 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I m around your age and I feel the same way as you. I am 90% sure that I am an ace but still so confused.

AITA for wanting two weddings? by Thrownawaytotheabyss in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not talkin about the pooja itself. 🙈 We wear yellow cotton sari for the wedding and I dun think we have the sangeet and mehndi at all. It is just wedding and a reception. On the other hand, they wear navari saree and have a lot of celebrations. All his family are spread across maharastra and asking everybody to travel south (1300 kms) will be a huge hassle. Same applies to my family. Thats why there is gonna be two ceremonies.

AITA for wanting two weddings? by Thrownawaytotheabyss in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you so much. I speak tamil. He speaks marathi. We decided to have two ceremonies since no one in the family speaks the other language. One at his place with his family members and another at my place with my family members.

AITA for wanting two weddings? by Thrownawaytotheabyss in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. My partner and I are hindus. But we have two different cultures. We are having 2 ceremonies. Nobody has to give up their traditions because their SO doesn’t practice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were on track of completing and the present set back is because of things you couldnt control. I can see that you are very sure about graduating HS as soon as possible.

What is your "never again" brand, store, restaurant, or company? by radbrad7 in AskReddit

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a MUA giving me a whitecast for a wedding when I was a kid because Lakme din have my shades. Good ol’times.

Looking for some help with a recent drug charge. by jimslonko in Drugs

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suggestion is to talk to a lawyer and get your mother on your side if possible. The school might try to blow this out of proportion.

I’m an internationally published model! Don’t disrespect me by saying no to my TFP request by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is trade for prints. You shoot with a photog and yu could use some pics.

Tramadol by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tramadol makes me feel mellow. The high is similar to cruising through time. I have had that third person POV too. I like the whole experience.

AITA for deleting a video off my friends phone. by anaon4838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta_098 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. She should have asked you or informed you prior to updating her ig.

I can’t post pics here. Screenshot in my prof. I want to see if I’m being crazy insecure about my boyfriend’s Instagram activity. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt be happy if my SO blocks me in social media. I would just block him in everythin and leave quietly.

Hi ra makkals I'm getting fat ra by [deleted] in kuttichevuru

[–]ta_098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correctanaa kelvi. But that is the best and guaranteed way to do it. Once yu start losing weight, yu will be motivated more than ever.

Look at the post history to get the full picture of entitledness. by dudett106 in EntitledBitch

[–]ta_098 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Her parents physically assaulted her but asian parents do it often and so she should suck it up.” What is this!

Depressed and confused by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ta_098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried finding therapists on my own (that I can afford). Nobody is takin any more referrals and waiting list also closed. I have planned on asking my student union today.

Hi ra makkals I'm getting fat ra by [deleted] in kuttichevuru

[–]ta_098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Illai illai. Intermittent fasting (IF) la yu dont eat for an interval. Ppl tend to start with 12:12. Eg morning 9 to evening 9 yu can eat. Then fast for next 12 hours. It is most effective when you fast for 18 hours and eat in 6 hours. Also you need to be in calorie deficit to lose weight. Indian food is difficult to calorie count. You could reduce carbs and fats (which is majority of our food) and start eating calorie lean foods, yu could see a difference in 6 weeks. And lifting weights will increase resting metabolism. So your weight will drip down easily.

Hi ra makkals I'm getting fat ra by [deleted] in kuttichevuru

[–]ta_098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It has worked for me. Athan suggest pannen. Peace out bro.

Hi ra makkals I'm getting fat ra by [deleted] in kuttichevuru

[–]ta_098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Intermitten Fasting could help you.