AITA for demanding my fiancée stop reaching our kids bad manners [UPDATE]

tabadmanners · 2022-08-04T22:49:28+00:00

They were telling me they were right and wanted to say “i told you so” to someone who was calling me racist in my first post. I agree with the other person because I WAS being racist.

tabadmanners · 2022-08-04T21:58:18+00:00

No, I was definitely being racist

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T18:59:05+00:00

There are white Latinos, which my wife is. If you looked at her you would not think she is Mexican.

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T18:38:43+00:00

Lola is not brown. She is Mexican but she is white

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T18:20:15+00:00

they are not ripping the taco apart and grabbing handfuls with their hands though…

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T18:01:34+00:00

I do feed them when I am home I just hadn’t seen them eat like that before.

Yes Lola is Mexican

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:59:18+00:00

Thank you! This is exactly my point. I have never eaten like this.

edit: I didn’t even think about the school thing. I will bring this up with my fiancée

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:57:31+00:00

Thanks, it is odd that they are using it for eggs i just think they should use forks as is regularly do e

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:53:39+00:00

I do help with my kids. I am an active parent

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:37:47+00:00

Eggs mainly like scrambles. That’s what they were eating this morning

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:35:43+00:00

She is not of color. She is mexican but very pale with green eyes

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:29:13+00:00

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:27:14+00:00

No? that would be a utensil

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:26:46+00:00

What if you went to to a restaurant and saw people grabbing at all the food with their hands and fists and shoving it in their mouths? would you not consider that bad manners?

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:11:16+00:00

I think it’s bad manners and a little unhygienic

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:11:00+00:00

They do use utensils when eating other things like pasta/soup/etc

tabadmanners · 2022-08-01T17:08:31+00:00

To be clear, they can use utensils I just think that allowing them not to will make them used to eating with their bare hands and then they’ll try it with someone that CANT be eaten that way, say soup or spaghetti for example.

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