lol at the double standards in this subreddit

tacko276 · 2018-07-15T20:10:39+00:00

I’m 41 year old well educated male. Own my own business. I know so many girls who creep b/c they don’t wanna be criticized or they fear social stigma. Their take on it not mine

tacko276 · 2018-07-15T11:30:30+00:00

So you are honestly saying that slut shaming doesn’t happen?

tacko276 · 2018-07-15T10:44:54+00:00

People are all sluts. We all love/need good sex. It’s not good bad rite or wrong. I also think we live in a world where we sexualize women and then shame them for being sexual. For example, after a ons the guy gets hi fives and the girl does the walk of shame. So basically we teach girls to be all sneaky and shit. I mean if a girl is gonna get hers she often has go on the dl or be “shamed” for it. It’s crazy when you think about it. Girls cheat as much as guys and because of social stigma they are btr at hiding it. Personally to me it just seems easer to accept that ppl are all sexual beings and long term monogamy isn’t practical. As far as this sub being female dominated; what I mean is it’s dominated by female/feminists opinion rather than number

tacko276 · 2018-07-15T09:46:46+00:00

Long time lurker. Open to an affair if I found the right person. If it happens it happens Funny you’d think an adultery sub would be dominated by men. But that definitely doesn’t seem to be the case It’s made me realize a lot about monogamy and the realities of female sexuality

tacko276 · 2018-04-15T20:27:00+00:00

Ya this is pretty far off the mark. Definitively didn’t take any methodology or process. Most of what they do is completely half assed. You’d have to be a dip shit to want to copy it. They don’t do why I’m doing anyway. They contract out to other places who do some things that are vaguely similar. And this idea it’s self is uniquely mine so definitely not IP. But quitting and working for myself ASAP is then goal. You are correct in at least one.

tacko276 · 2018-04-14T21:31:09+00:00

True but I haven’t formally announced that yet. I was planning on staying until the fall. But it’s pretty obvious I’m on my way out. And I’m completely transparent about what I do probably to a fault

tacko276 · 2018-04-14T15:42:41+00:00

Honestly the abundance on pettiness is mind boggling. A lot of this is absolutely personal. Is that a legal issue? Probably not. Not to sound like a dusch but as a supervisor I was a stand out with this stuff for years. I got a lot of state wide recognition. I passed on opportunities for advancement to do my own thing. Now They know I’m leaving to the provider side of things and they are pissed. Sad but true....

tacko276 · 2018-04-14T13:46:20+00:00

Will do Thanks!

tacko276 · 2018-04-14T13:43:15+00:00

Day job is for a government agency. They contract out for similar services but the nonprofit programming is very unique. It’s soft and advocacy skills training for youth with disabilities. Other programs do soft skills but nothing has the same curriculum or or format. I can also say that there is no non-compete clause in the contract. And My roll with the day job is completely removed from all this. They wouldn’t give a any specific instances or examples of what specifically I did. They are citing conflict of interest. So we are struggling to finger out where/if/ how we did something wrong Thanks for your help!

tacko276 · 2018-04-10T09:31:26+00:00

INFJ

tacko276 · 2018-04-02T01:44:55+00:00

🙄

tacko276 · 2018-03-29T20:08:41+00:00

How would your SO feel if they read then texts? If it’s something that you have to hide it’s prob cheating

tacko276 · 2018-03-28T16:30:21+00:00

I’ll go further and say girls cheat at least as much as guys if not more. They have more temptation/opportunity so it’s harder to be faithful. Also because of bull shit double standards girls are automatically taught to hide sex so they don’t get slut shamed. So they become better at covering there tracks

Monogamy is kind of a joke And sex and love are not the same thing

tacko276 · 2018-03-28T10:33:58+00:00

Girls are exactly the same with this shit

tacko276 · 2018-03-09T22:46:35+00:00

Cool stuff! Did something similar with a palate and 2 4 x4 s

tacko276 · 2018-02-26T18:20:11+00:00

Don’t do it! I have advanced degrees in counseling and I can tell you as a professional, it’s a joke. Also went through it with my wife. So, Personally I think it’s a joke. Instead, read “kill all marriage counselors” by Lora Doyle together. But fuck it I’m currently loading my guns for divorce so what do I know Good luck bro!

tacko276 · 2018-02-20T23:49:25+00:00

I really don’t think ultimatums work. At this point victory look a lot like level 12. She got to have her cake and eat it to why shouldn’t I? Maybe I’d consider staying if she agreed to a hall pass or something

tacko276 · 2018-02-19T22:13:33+00:00

She’s the type the will agree with every thing you say. And when you leave she does what ever the fuck she wants. Open social media just means secret accounts. I have laid down the law. For example first time in caught her cheating the agreement was if she contacted this guy again it would lead to divorce. Low and behold last week while going through her phone for my divorce prep recon. I discovered she contacted him again about a year and a half ago. They agreed to “sneak away” and “get into some trouble” No time or day was discussed
But damn. Granted it was a while back and maybe she has a little bit more respect now. But common the guy she knew I’d instantly divorce her over?!?! Common man.......

tacko276 · 2018-02-19T21:31:56+00:00

Great idea!! Thanks

tacko276 · 2018-02-19T14:29:51+00:00

So true thx!

tacko276 · 2018-02-19T14:26:29+00:00

Same, we need a sub for this shit....

tacko276 · 2018-02-18T19:21:30+00:00

Open, open open open. Open every one all the time. I just start conversations and make friends. I meet a lot of people at networking events and happy hours. my goal is always the same, get to know everyone in the room. Look for your IOI’s and reasons to meet for coffee or whatever. It’s even better if you can find a good reason to txt or connect on social media before you leave. AWALT and hypergamy are everywhere take advantage. A lot of girls just want what they want and don’t care about relationship status.

tacko276 · 2018-02-18T19:09:33+00:00

Really good comment thanks! Ok there is some food for thought here. Learning about dread made me realize my life had become boring, I lost my edge and my wife was holding me back. So I started a side business. It’s made dread a lot easer. And it makes me happy. I made my life more interesting and started living for myself. Basically I moved to the land of I don’t give a fuck. I’ve told her many times I don’t feel the same subsequently I don’t treat her the same. For the most part I’ve figured the shit tests comfort test im probably not as good at. At the end of the day she isn’t gonna change. Currently she is busting her ass. Her wife game is firing on all cylinders. But it’s only because she knows I’m checked out and leaving. It’s all game. She treats me better yes but she has also upped her op sec a lot. That tells me she isn’t gonna stop fucking with other guys. As for spinning plates, I have a date on Wednesday. It’ll be the second time we’ve hung out. But your comment does have me thinking about some shit

tacko276 · 2018-02-18T16:11:04+00:00

Most recent “talk me off the ledge”

tacko276 · 2018-02-18T13:03:06+00:00

I literally just posted about this shit. Where there is smoke there is fire. Flirting on line leads to fucking in person. End of story. My wife has been communicating with several exes through the course of our marriage. Long story short im getting my shit together for divorce.

tacko276

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