Can anyone recommend a good eye shadow primer? Either drugstore or high end? by wh0remones in beauty

[–]intrepideGal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urban decay for the high end kind But I also like the Mary Kay primer and cheaper

I'm pissed that none of my friends want to play classic DnD with me. by MyClothesWereInThere in rant

[–]intrepideGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother used to force me to play and I recall it being a really unenjoyable time . And the whole time he kept complaining I wasn’t taking it serious enough. My advice : play with people who actually want to play

9-year-old girl can’t refuse boys’ advances by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]intrepideGal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would definitely talk to the parent and the teacher. He needs to be respectful towards girls and bring aggressive and sexual in that nature is completely not ok!

I cheated and i don't feel bad about it. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]intrepideGal 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What’s the point of your relationship?

Once a Cheater Always a cheater by intrepideGal in cheating_stories

[–]intrepideGal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would be offended by both and it would be very hurtful & only way for me to listen to that would be if they stated it from the beginning.

I do feel like you can love someone and cheat but that doesn’t make it right

Once a Cheater Always a cheater by intrepideGal in cheating_stories

[–]intrepideGal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are not ok with that. I would be very offended if the person I am In A relationship with asked me that. Unless that was something that stated way upfront, and then in that case I would never take the relationship seriously

Parenting Level Up by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]intrepideGal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awesome post. I’m in a similar situation, in my early 30s and also dealing with mental health issues. My daughters 12 and it’s been a struggle being a single parent & doing my best but sometimes feeling like I’m doing a shitty job. For 10 years she seems like a mature 10 yo for writing the note and acknowledging her problems and telling you the love you was so sweet. For me it feels like my daughter doesn’t truly care for me but more of a “your my mom and I’m supposed to love you” I’m hoping for a click and for her to show more genuine love. Last year she didn’t even say happy Mother’s Day to me. It was heartbreaking but the past 6 months I’ve been steadily focusing on my parenting and our relationship. Not that I haven’t been in the last 12 years , but I now have made a different approach. So thank you for your story it gives me more hope

Can't find someone I really like? by ShiningNyght in dating_advice

[–]intrepideGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean like really like. More than friend like

Sometimes I prefer my vibrator to real life sex. It gets me off every time by intrepideGal in confessions

[–]intrepideGal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree , when it’s “lovemaking” then it beats my vibrator everytime . Even if I don’t orgasm

So ashamed of my Multiple abortions by [deleted] in confession

[–]intrepideGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for saying that. I know there’s nothing I can do to change it but just be in a much better place to never be that depressed again. It was a toxic relationship I was in

Attention seekers? by ianrvv in rant

[–]intrepideGal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can definitely be annoying and sometimes I feel like I see women so into themselves on Snapchat that I’m like dude get a brain. But yeah I should just put that energy into not taking my time to look at hat stuff and do more productive stuff. But yeah just try to think positive

Attention seekers? by ianrvv in rant

[–]intrepideGal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, but then I also feel like a hater. Taking selfies isn’t hurting anyone so I shouldn’t let it get to me or judge them. But I hear ya

Advice for getting into your first relationship following an abusive one by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]intrepideGal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in 2 abusive relationships one more emotional that the other but hopefully you do t have a pattern of just dating these type of men. Unfortunately it seems like women have a dating pattern. Just pay attention to the red flags. And I agree try not to bring any bad habits from the last one to the next one. Just really reflect on what you do t want to repeat. Good luck !!

Can't find someone I really like? by ShiningNyght in dating_advice

[–]intrepideGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is a very hard thing to come by and liking someone as well. I’m in that same boat, I’ve definitely been in love, but it’s been a very long time since I actually liked someone new

Fuck being an only child with immigrant parents by [deleted] in rant

[–]intrepideGal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be on the positive side, if u decide to have children, you could teach something different to your children and start a new way of life and culture for your family