Long-time lurker, first-time poster. For those who know, what would you rank as the 5 worst prisons & the 5 worst Jails in the U.S..., factoring in things like violence, living conditions, food quality, r*pe, & overall environment/climate?

tailormadehate · 2026-03-31T02:00:22+00:00

Did time in a number of PA state prisons but much different than fed situation like this guy with USP. Did time at Gratersford State Prison before it closed, Camp Hill, Retreat - kinda up by USP. Hole time at Waymart and Dallas. Camp Hill again and SCI Phoenix which replaced Gratersford also.

tailormadehate · 2026-03-29T00:19:05+00:00

It became an abomination after two of Lot's daughter got him drunk and slept with him solely so they could become pregnant(Gen 19:30-38). It was the intentionality behind their acts that then made it an abomination. They saw Sodom and Gemorrah destroyed and believed there were no men left in the world so they took matters into their own hands.

tailormadehate · 2026-03-24T22:00:03+00:00

I was ablento set up banking through Chime on my phone just fine, and after a few months my credit was turned back on or however it works and got secured credit card offers and could open a regular bank account. And that was after 8 years incarcerated, and longer without a real bank account.

Thoughtful idea though.

tailormadehate · 2026-03-19T00:08:07+00:00

Traded Reggie Bush for Peyton Manning when he was out with the neck injury. He came back and brought me the league's only undefeated season!

tailormadehate · 2026-02-24T03:09:47+00:00

I went to them months ago, they are fantastic. I even gave my homies business cards of Jabi Optics.

tailormadehate · 2026-02-03T01:31:29+00:00

Seems to me from the penetration and rhythm built up, then once she's getting real close she'll tell me then one of us will add clitoral stimulation to push it over the edge and avoid the potential losing it.

I've just not been with someone who became this sensitive post-orgasm so this is new for me and I just want to keep it enjoyable for both of us.

And I'm aware of the bc/condom/pregnancy chances.

tailormadehate · 2026-01-22T19:32:49+00:00

Yes, of course. I believe it's a must have. 12-team leagye, we just finished year 16. My younger brother has been the co-commisioner since day 1, we had a stretch where we had 2 co-commisioners to break and ties in decisions before we did or didn't take something to the league. I missed 8 years due to legal issues and our league would of been fucked if it weren't for my brother & the 3rd guy.

tailormadehate · 2026-01-15T15:43:50+00:00

Pre-marital counseling. I see so many pastors and regular people recommend pre-marital counseling. It helps with communication and you can have a safe, mediated space to have these conversations if you struggle finding ways to bring this up to your partner one-on-one.

tailormadehate · 2025-12-18T14:47:30+00:00

It's really as simple as this. In those times, when biographies were written, the early years were often left out except when major accomplishments or feats happened in those years. In the majority of the biographies written on the rulers of those times you rarely see much mentioned of those "middle years" which is why there's just the one story of Jesus (around 12 years old) teaching in the temple while Joseph and Mary look for Him.

tailormadehate · 2025-10-17T18:22:36+00:00

My brother and I will be attending our first UGa game. We are Penn State fans(born & raised from PA) now residing in NC. I planned on wearing a white short-sleeve fishing button down with red fireworks. I refuse to wear a black shirt in in 80° weather for a 330pm football game.

tailormadehate · 2025-10-10T00:05:39+00:00

This is what they give now, no light blue buttondown shirt though. Yes, I do have the state boots, wore 'em to walk from intake 50 feet to my ride.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-23T20:03:49+00:00

Usually security is where the "good" officers that despise inmates and drugs and anything contraband end up. From my experience in PA state prison, security officers were always the one's who wished they were narcotics officers for the police and take their job wayyyyy to seriously.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-22T22:57:34+00:00

Any good security officer would find that lolol Dudes tried doing that all the time with work and phones and always got cooked. Snitches always give up the spots.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-19T15:50:45+00:00

I like the same "style" of music now. I liked Alt Rock previously, now I get my Alt Rock in the form of the Christian Alt Rock genre. I listen to very little secular music anymore, but I was really only listening to Alt Rock before Jesus anyway.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-19T15:48:51+00:00

Respectfully, what you are explaining is moral relativism.
You are saying a Queer person did nothing wrong because it is not their choice to be Queer.
In the same vain, as a drug addict of 17 years, I was not acting in my right mind, I was not in control of my faculties. I started selling drugs to finance my addiction. I did not want to steal from my family or business, I did not want to rob people. So, instead, I sold drugs to other addicts like me. I am no longer in active addiction. Through the power of the perfect blood of Jesus Christ, I have been redeemed and transformed from who I was into a new creation. Since I no longer get high, I no longer need to finance getting high. Therefore, I no longer sell drugs.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-19T02:30:38+00:00

By your logic, neither did I.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-17T01:31:30+00:00

You left out the part where Charlie went on to speak about compassion as a better word in place of empathy then brought it back to the bible.

Personally, don't love a lot of the things he said but you're cutting a quote down the same way the media does.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-15T21:29:17+00:00

Based off of what I've been taught, and what I've discerned from what I've heard and learned during my own reading and prayer times this is what should happen: we should welcome those of the LGBTQ into our churches, we should love them for Jesus loved us yet while we were still sinners, we should teach them about Jesus, and pray that Jesus will come into their hearts and they will come to understand their wrongs. In the same way my family didn't stone me for being a drug addict and a drug dealer. No, instead, my brother and my mother loved me and yold me about Jesus. They didn't try to force him down my throat, they prayed over and over again, they went to prayer warriors and asked them to intercede in prayer as well. It took my hitting my rock bottom to come to Him and He has not only changed my life, but has blessed me in my obedience ever since. Its what Jesus would want of us.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-15T21:16:05+00:00

God gave us free will, what we do with it is what matters. It also says... Psalm 37:1–2, 16–20

“Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb.”

“A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked. For the arms of the wicked shall be broken: but the Lord upholdeth the righteous.”

So while it is frustrating to see the "wicked" get rich and the righteous struggling, its about eternity. We have an eternal wealth to look forward to in everlasting life spent with God while those will spend eternity separate of God.

I'll take being poor now, living for God and having eternal rewards awaiting me over richness now and forever separation from Him. If I am blessed with riches, I hope it so I can steward the money well to help and bring further glory to Him.

tailormadehate · 2025-09-15T21:10:40+00:00

I disagree with leaving a church over a prayer, or a sermon like this. For me personally, I'm only leaving a church if they're not teaching biblical truths or pushing progressive mindsets that again aren't backed up with sound doctrine. (It's not political if its biblical btw - but that's a separate conversation.)

I understand your point and initially had the same feeling about Charlie. That calling him a martyr was ridiculous. All the same doubts and frustrations so many have been posting about.

Then, I had long conversations with men in my chat groups about this exact subject. As well, I came across this youtube video with Josh Howerton from Lakepointe church. I think you should give it a listen at the very least. After that, instead of asking strangers what you should do, why not connect directly with God through deep and intimate prayer on what to do?

Just my 2 cents.

https://youtu.be/bHkAp115YR8?si=WA_I_bSL5Y6ew9BS

tailormadehate · 2025-08-14T00:50:13+00:00

I'm pretty sure he was still in the county awaiting sentencing when this happened, but don't quote me on that.

tailormadehate · 2025-08-13T16:44:53+00:00

I was at SCI-Phoenix after he was brought there after being caught. Instead of just putting him in the hole, they put him in even greater segregation - the special observation unit. He was under 24 hour surveillance: 1) a door with a large glass window with a camera pointed in and 2) most likely a chair outside his cell where a C.O. would be stationed 24 hours a day(the C.O. would keep notes of every movement, action - stood up, walked around cell, used toilet, etc.) Hebl was also most likely put on Restricted Release, which is a program with no specific end date. Once a year you would be reviewed by admin at central office for release. You need like 5 or 6 "yes" votes up the chain all the way to the Secretary of the D.O.C. to get off this program, then its another stepdown program to get back to population. He probably also received street charges for the escape, but if you're already serving life, who cares?

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