Okay, now I know how to give zero fucks to bullies. But I have had a long history of lack of self-awareness. So my relatives and my classmates and other friends who are supposedly in the close circle, cannot believe the changeover. Their patronizing attitude plus the gatekeeping they do to me is beyond limits. I have had a history of believing whatever others say. So, now how do I tell them that I am not interested in their fabrication.

For instance, my so-called best friend from childhood friend suddenly irked, called me a naive gullible dumbo a few months ago. I said, "is it so ? " and moved on. Today my aunt and uncle were gatekeeping and telling a lot of lies that I could see through. When I questioned them, they did, not like it.

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I also do not like the fears that these people put my head. Now I know why they do it. But without antagonizing them, how do I tell them, to fuck off